All the Drama as of Late

Veronica

Veronica

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Over the last 2 weeks, there has been ALOT of drama! Everyone should remember when everyone on this site was laid back and all got along.. I remember it, and I miss it. I am asking that everyone, take a step back and relax.. Remember this is the internet and EVERYONE has their own opinions. Noone should judge someone on the way they believe. Before you get angry and your blood pressure rises, just remember that these people that you are causing problems with are gonna be your sounding board and your friend when you need them. I personally like everyone here. Yes, there are times when I get pissed at certain people, but that doesnt mean that I dont like you guys. Myself, Tim and the other mods, have a rough job. We are suppose to 'yell' at our friends when they do wrong and give them an infraction, ect. We discuss everything in the mods room and talk about what we should do before we do it. Now there is a few times that I have just done it, because it needed to be done- or the offense was severe enough to be dealt with then. We dont like arguing with people. I know I damn sure hate it. I have gained ALOT of friends by having this site. You guys have been there for me through it all. I hate that its being torn apart by a few. Emotions have been high- there have been some members leave that are important to us.. Im sure everyone agrees we hope they make it back here.. however, I support their decision in leaving if that is what they want.

Just please - lets all get along and gain our 'old' site back. :)
 
I dont like the fact that I left everyone over a disagreement with one person. I dont like the fact that I had the disagreement and acted the way I did. I guess I felt cut, because no one came to me to say I was being an ass. And now I know how V feels about me not comming to her when I had a problem. I know it was hurtful to post the PMs that I did. But I felt at the time, I should get everyone in one room. Like my mom used to tell me to do when people talk behind your back. "Gett'em all in one room! You'll find out who's talkin." But then after thinking about that, what do I care? Why would people say such a thing? Was I in fact being an ass? Maybe. Maybe what I've been going through for the past couple of weeks DID rub off on the people I care about. For that I apologize.

Even if I dont come back full swing, I hope this site regains the community it once had, because it is full of beautiful people with beautiful souls. People that are heavily missed after just three days.

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I agree with you V, completely.

I guess that I was so used to everything going so smoothly here that when people started fighting and things went crazy, I got caught up in it. I've said things that I shouldn't have, and I'm a big enough person to admit it. I apologize for my wrong-doings. I can be nice to everyone, regardless if I agree with them or not. I'm ready for the old OTz to come back.
 
Thanks everyone! :) And thanks boomer for posting that. We are fine. Im sorry that I took everything out on you. It wasnt my intention. After my few days away, I have alot more of a clearer mind. Boomer, we will be honored to have you back full time (if you can). You are missed terribly from what I can see. :)

If we ALL step back and relax alittle more, we will have a smoother running site. Thanks again.
 
vshayes said:
Thanks everyone! :) And thanks boomer for posting that. We are fine. Im sorry that I took everything out on you. It wasnt my intention. After my few days away, I have alot more of a clearer mind. Boomer, we will be honored to have you back full time (if you can). You are missed terribly from what I can see. :)

If we ALL step back and relax alittle more, we will have a smoother running site. Thanks again.
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Oh ok, you convinced me. :D
 
vshayes said:
Over the last 2 weeks, there has been ALOT of drama! Everyone should remember when everyone on this site was laid back and all got along.. I remember it, and I miss it. I am asking that everyone, take a step back and relax.. Remember this is the internet and EVERYONE has their own opinions. Noone should judge someone on the way they believe. Before you get angry and your blood pressure rises, just remember that these people that you are causing problems with are gonna be your sounding board and your friend when you need them. I personally like everyone here. Yes, there are times when I get pissed at certain people, but that doesnt mean that I dont like you guys. Myself, Tim and the other mods, have a rough job. We are suppose to 'yell' at our friends when they do wrong and give them an infraction, ect. We discuss everything in the mods room and talk about what we should do before we do it. Now there is a few times that I have just done it, because it needed to be done- or the offense was severe enough to be dealt with then. We dont like arguing with people. I know I damn sure hate it. I have gained ALOT of friends by having this site. You guys have been there for me through it all. I hate that its being torn apart by a few. Emotions have been high- there have been some members leave that are important to us.. Im sure everyone agrees we hope they make it back here.. however, I support their decision in leaving if that is what they want.

Just please - lets all get along and gain our 'old' site back. :)
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AMEN Sista!
 
I'd like to personally apologise to you Veronica and some of the other mods. You were really nice in sorting out my problem recently as well as were many of the mods. I think this place in run great, things I dont like will happen but I'm so glad to have reasonable admin and mods I can straighten things out like this with. You go girl!:clap:)
 
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