go to sallys and get one of those one time conditioner packets...there are a bunch of brands, just look for deep conditioning treatment...wash your hair wiht a moisturizing shampoo, get out of the shower, then apply conditioner and leave on hair...use a lot...and wrap your head in saran wrap and let it sit for 20 mins. 10 mins if you wanna sit with the hairdryer on your head. rinse with cold water, and your hair will be smooth as butter and softtttt when youa re done!