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Pumpkin

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NEVER in my life have I seen a good looking woman at a bar, went back to her place and given her a strap on and tell her to go to town.

It's kind of like rape (no, NOT funny) when you hear that someone has been raped, you automatically assume it was the male doing the raping.

Yeeeeah, I didn't mean I would put a strap on and have my way with a guy. Just that if I see a guy I think is hot and wouldn't kick out of bed, I'd use that saying
 

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Yeeeeah, I didn't mean I would put a strap on and have my way with a guy. Just that if I see a guy I think is hot and wouldn't kick out of bed, I'd use that saying

I understand.

I don't want anything up my butt, and I guess for two homosexuals to have sex, one has to take it up the butt. The one getting it up the butt would be the "tappee" and the one giving it would be the "tapper". But do both of them give it to each other up the butt or is it only one getting it, and how does one decide who "gets it"?

Believe it or not, I may have to call someone to find out. Something you don't bring up in casual conversation, and honestly, something that NEVER crossed my mind until some of these threads popped up.
 

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It totally depends on the people. Some are "tops" some are "bottoms"... then there a variations of those... I was once well educated by a late, gay friend of mine. He always told me I was the straightest man he ever met and never once so much as looked at me like he would hit on me. He knew better lol

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I was once well educated by a late, gay friend of mine. He always told me I was the straightest man he ever met and never once so much as looked at me like he would hit on me. He knew better lol

Sorry about your friend.

Ironically enough, straight people sometimes wondered about me LOL Try being a male in your mid 30's, never married and no children, and when people asked me where I was going on vacation and I told them to Idaho or Montana for a couple of weeks "out in the wilderness" with some buddies...:24:
 

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Sorry about your friend.

Ironically enough, straight people sometimes wondered about me LOL Try being a male in your mid 30's, never married and no children, and when people asked me where I was going on vacation and I told them to Idaho or Montana for a couple of weeks "out in the wilderness" with some buddies...:24:
That sounds like my husband.. he never settled down till his mid 40's..........
 

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That sounds like my husband.. he never settled down till his mid 40's..........

I was always amazed at the looks I got when I told some people I was never married nor had children approaching my 40's, and I actually went out and did things, even on my own in some cases. As I've told my wife, I've done pretty much everything I wanted to do, so the fun's over, time to get married LOL
 

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I was always amazed at the looks I got when I told some people I was never married nor had children approaching my 40's, and I actually went out and did things, even on my own in some cases. As I've told my wife, I've done pretty much everything I wanted to do, so the fun's over, time to get married LOL

My hubby lived the biker lifestyle.. etc...

He was happy alone then he met me.. ..
 

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What an odd question. I guess it would be the same for everyone. There is the hunter and the hunted. So the hunter want to "tap that" and the hunted wants to be "tapped" if the feelings at mutual. Or maybe they switch after.
 

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I understand.

I don't want anything up my butt, and I guess for two homosexuals to have sex, one has to take it up the butt. The one getting it up the butt would be the "tappee" and the one giving it would be the "tapper". But do both of them give it to each other up the butt or is it only one getting it, and how does one decide who "gets it"?

Believe it or not, I may have to call someone to find out. Something you don't bring up in casual conversation, and honestly, something that NEVER crossed my mind until some of these threads popped up.

Total brain fart. I didn't understand what you meant. I got it now :D
 

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He was happy alone then he met me.. ..

It took me about 10 years (my 20's) to realize that you have to love yourself first, and be happy with who you are before you can truly love another and be happy with them. I also have no fear of feeling like I "lost out" on doing anything I wanted now that I'm married, and although I had some great and wonderful times being "free", I wouldn't change being with the one woman who I love for anything in the world.

That, and my dad likes her more than he likes me:D
 

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At the least, this should be in the complex. I you don't have the password, PM me. As long as your 18+ you are allowed in.
 
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