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i might be able to get a job at amscot its a financial center...gettin paid between 12 and 15 an hour. 410k. health benifits, paind vacations and off days. i have to have a ged or high school diploma...like i do. the only thing is i have to be 18..which i will be on november 8th. so i may have a job held for me...yay...and the possible boyfriend is named jimmy. he is 24 and has a kid. hes a truck driver now and we have been great friends for almost 10 months. we help eachother with our problems and we talk to each other about everything. we have so much in common. when we talk we dont stop for hours at a time...he is just a great person. and my aunt actually wants to hook us up....wow...i typed alot
 
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i might be able to get a job at amscot its a financial center...gettin paid between 12 and 15 an hour. 410k. health benifits, paind vacations and off days. i have to have a ged or high school diploma...like i do. the only thing is i have to be 18..which i will be on november 8th. so i may have a job held for me...yay...and the possible boyfriend is named jimmy. he is 24 and has a kid. hes a truck driver now and we have been great friends for almost 10 months. we help eachother with our problems and we talk to each other about everything. we have so much in common. when we talk we dont stop for hours at a time...he is just a great person. and my aunt actually wants to hook us up....wow...i typed alot
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Lol, I'll start from back to frnt on this post Steph, cos...

Wow, you did post a lot - for you hun lol :D good for you too.

Well, that is so sweet about that bloke. It sounds as though you are good for eachother, having been friends for a whiel.

Now then missy, are we all gonna have to sort out you two like we did Haus, not so long ago ha ha ha :jk ;)

That job sounds very good and interesting - you go girl and convince them they need to definately hold that job for you, as it's just for a few weeks longer. You have the diploma and they need you - hope they will take that on board. :)
 
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Lol, I'll start from back to frnt on this post Steph, cos...

Wow, you did post a lot - for you hun lol :D good for you too.

Well, that is so sweet about that bloke. It sounds as though you are good for eachother, having been friends for a whiel.

Now then missy, are we all gonna have to sort out you two like we did Haus, not so long ago ha ha ha :jk ;)

That job sounds very good and interesting - you go girl and convince them they need to definately hold that job for you, as it's just for a few weeks longer. You have the diploma and they need you - hope they will take that on board. :)
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yea. i think this is also a good opportunity for me along with many others. i am so happy with myself. and i am actually loosing weight again and i look pretty and feel pretty for a change. so i guess that things are actually looking up for me..lol...how are things goin with you?
 
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Demonica69 said:
......and the possible boyfriend is named jimmy. he is 24 and has a kid. hes a truck driver now and we have been great friends for almost 10 months. we help eachother with our problems and we talk to each other about everything. we have so much in common. when we talk we dont stop for hours at a time...he is just a great person. and my aunt actually wants to hook us up....wow...i typed alot
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Don't want to burst your bubble Demonica. BUT....at such a young age are you sure you want to get involved with a 24 year old guy that has a kid...and I'm assuming he is not with the child's mother?

Awful lot of responsibility there Demonica. More than you may appreciate right now. Thread very carefully. Easy to get in. Much harder to get out. Just saying.

BTW, keeping fingers crossed your job comes through. All the best.
 
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yea i am. i have been in the same situation last summer with a dude alot older then that. its a long story. i did it mainly so i didnt have to go home. but this guy is different. he doesnt have custody of josh (his son) he has him on weekends and sometimes after school when he is not on the road. and thanxz for your support about the job
 
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yep i have been computer-less :( sucks!!!! but i miss all you guys!!! i feel sooo out of the loop! I just might make a surprise trip up to NJ with you guys though...that would soo kick ass.
 
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yep i have been computer-less :( sucks!!!! but i miss all you guys!!! i feel sooo out of the loop! I just might make a surprise trip up to NJ with you guys though...that would soo kick ass.
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Aha, hi Clare. How on earth are you?

Can't remember what it was has happened about yr computer, but hope it is fixed soon - it's been ages since you were here last.

Hope you are OK - you go girl, to NJ, hope you enjoy if you do. :)
 
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yea i am. i have been in the same situation last summer with a dude alot older then that. its a long story. i did it mainly so i didnt have to go home. but this guy is different. he doesnt have custody of josh (his son) he has him on weekends and sometimes after school when he is not on the road. and thanxz for your support about the job
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Sorry to be blunt here Demonica. You are very young and have much life ahead of you. 17 years right? As happens with most of us we let our hearts take over and blind us sometimes in matters such as this. Could it be that your choices in men leaves something to be desired? You said your last boyfriend was considerably older than you. And...you got together with him for the WRONG reasons. That didn't work out. Now this potential boyfriend, a 23 year old, has a child with someone else, the mother he is not with...and child, for whatever reason. Do you see a pattern here? For all I know he may be a great guy that has just been dealt a bad hand and deserves a chance BUT the odds don't seem favorable.

Demonica, you deserve so much more than that than to put yourself in so much responsibility. It's hard enough for older folk in such situations far less for a 17 year old. No matter how you look at it, his child is forever a part of his life now...and so is the child's mother. Don't doubt that for a milli-second. If you think it's going to be easy, think again.

My advice to you: Pull back a bit. Don't rush in. For now, focus on making yourself feel better about yourself inside out. That's where it counts most. Get more involved in activities you enjoy. Perhaps even help a charitable organisation. There's a lot of good feeling to be derived from that. Join a group. Diet sensibly and with purpose. Exercise. Pretty up yourself, look in the mirror and say....I am beautiful, I am a nice person and I deserve the best. YOU DO. Make new friends but relax. Sometimes (oftentimes) you meet new friends when you least expect. But you have to allow yourself to be in an environment to so do.

Do not harbor ill feelings as much you can. Forgive. Think positive and try to see the good in others. Draw from that and soak it in. Set your goals and work toward them. Don't overwhelm yourself by setting too many at one time and getting stressed out. Be realistic. Bit by bit.

Ok, went on for a bit longer there than I expected but hope it makes some sense.

Once again, all the best to you Demonica.
 
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Sorry to be blunt here Demonica. You are very young and have much life ahead of you. 17 years right? As happens with most of us we let our hearts take over and blind us sometimes in matters such as this. Could it be that your choices in men leaves something to be desired? You said your last boyfriend was considerably older than you. That didn't work out. Now this potential boyfriend, a 23 year old, has a child with someone else, the mother he is not with...and child, for whatever reason. Do you see a pattern here? For all I know he may be a great guy that has just been dealt a bad hand and deserves a chance BUT the odds don't seem favorable.

Demonica, you deserve so much more than that than to put yourself in so much responsibility. It's hard enough for older folk in such situations far less for a 17 year old. No matter how you look at it, his child is forever a part of his life now...and so is the child's mother. Don't doubt that for a milli-second. If you think it's going to be easy, think again.

My advice to you: Pull back a bit. Don't rush in. For now, focus on making yourself feel better about yourself inside out. That's where it counts most. Get more involved in activities you enjoy. Perhaps even help a charitable organisation. There's a lot of good feeling to be derived from that. Join a group. Diet sensibly and with purpose. Pretty up yourself, look in the mirror and say....I am beautiful, I am a nice person and I deserve the best. YOU DO. Make new friends but relax. Sometimes (oftentimes) you meet new friends when you least expect. But you have to allow yourself to be in an environment to so do.

Do not harbor ill feelings as much you can. Forgive. Think positive and try to see the good in others. Draw from that and soak it in. Set your goals and work toward them. Don't overwhelm yourself by setting too many at one time and getting stressed out. Be realistic. Bit by bit.

Ok, went on for a bit longer there than I expected but hope it makes some sense.

Once again, all the best to you Demonica.
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i agree with you on just about everything you said. im not planning on rushing into anything serious. thank you for the advice.
 
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