Do You think you are perfect?

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As to the topic (which you implied was prompted by what's been going on here)--this was what I addressed in my "mind your own business" thread. I try not to take anything anyone says seriously here because what I have found is there is somewhat of a "pack" mentality on forums--that is there are the "in" members and the "out" members. Valentin for example right now is an "out" member. It only takes a few "in" members to jump on "out" members and then others start doing it more or less to fit in (everyone wants to fit in--near impossible for Mulder but that's another story! :cool ). So then the member that's getting jumped on looks like the one that's causing trouble and he in fact might be, but the conduct is now under a microscope and next he's infracted or banned. So I think its important to use that infracting power and banning power very judiciously for that reason. Now of course people are human so its going to be used indiscriminately sometimes, but that's life--one big indiscrimination! ;)

I jump on people because they say stupid things. When you say something stupid, you deserve to be treated like someone who says stupid things.

I don't jump on people because it's the 'cool thing to do'. :)

But yes, it has been true in the past.
 
As to the topic (which you implied was prompted by what's been going on here)--this was what I addressed in my "mind your own business" thread. I try not to take anything anyone says seriously here because what I have found is there is somewhat of a "pack" mentality on forums--that is there are the "in" members and the "out" members. Valentin for example right now is an "out" member. It only takes a few "in" members to jump on "out" members and then others start doing it more or less to fit in (everyone wants to fit in--near impossible for Mulder but that's another story! :cool ). So then the member that's getting jumped on looks like the one that's causing trouble and he in fact might be, but the conduct is now under a microscope and next he's infracted or banned. So I think its important to use that infracting power and banning power very judiciously for that reason. Now of course people are human so its going to be used indiscriminately sometimes, but that's life--one big indiscrimination! ;)

Could you post that again but this time in English.
 
There shouldnt even be a word "perfect"...because no one and nothing ever is and ever will be!
Individuality and character that some people resent can be mis-read as "being up ones own ass"!..but @ the end of the day, we all have insecurities, and doubts.Even you Valentin;)
 
i am far from perfect. there is always something that i can improve about myself and i am constantly reevaluating myself to make myself a better person. i have made mistakes and i will make many more i am sure.
 
correct valley!!! that does count!! and to be honest, i think that peeps get confused over people thinking their "perfect" and people thinking they are "always right".....and lets be honest here, we all think the later at some point?
 
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