no its not tryin to be negative i always say it ... sorry if it came off offensively 
I just need opinions....
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no its not tryin to be negative i always say it ... sorry if it came off offensively
I hate you.
Kidding. I didn't take it offensively at all buddy
Okay cool.. though i don't think i've ever been called buddy before lol
It's my word! 
iiight i guess ill let it slide this time lol
lol
As I said. You don't want to tick off the parents.
Make them your allies. Half the battle won.
Make them your allies. Half the battle won.
Oh trust me, I done everything I could. Her parents known me for about half a year now and her dad is still the same. I dont party or drink. I'm going to school to become a cop and I don't smoke or do drugs. I'm a pure mature 21 year old male. I have goals and morals and I take care of myself. There's nothing they could go against me on.
BREAKING NEWS EVERYONE!!!
She just got home from college. She told her dad that I was coming over to hangout on Monday and he freaked out at her. This is what her text said: "He said if you even touch me he will kill you" wow... and I asked her if she wanted to go watch me play softball for my coed team monday night. I dont think that will even happen.
Well then he shouldn't be acting that way then.
BREAKING NEWS EVERYONE!!!
She just got home from college. She told her dad that I was coming over to hangout on Monday and he freaked out at her. This is what her text said: "He said if you even touch me he will kill you" wow... and I asked her if she wanted to go watch me play softball for my coed team monday night. I dont think that will even happen.
Now that's just plain weird. Something is def strange with that guy.
Is there ANYTHING in your past that he knows about that gives him reason for concern? Anything at all? Friends maybe?....Whatever.
I think I mentioned this in another thread .. but that is what you run into when dating people of different ethnic backgrounds .. their "cultures" operate differently. Chances are, that no matter how old she gets .. her dad will always play this type role in her life, and anyone else who happens to be in it.
So if you want to date her .. that is something you should take into consideration and just learn to work with (ie sitting down with her dad and setting up some sort of arrangement/schedule) and not fight it .. or find someone else to date.
So if you want to date her .. that is something you should take into consideration and just learn to work with (ie sitting down with her dad and setting up some sort of arrangement/schedule) and not fight it .. or find someone else to date.
You aren't of Iranian descent .. I'm sure to her dad .. that is enough. It sounds bad to say out loud .. but it's just how things seem to work sometimes in bi-cultural relationships.
Well, does he treat him the same way?
She told me it was a battle for like 3 months until he let her go out with him. ugh... then they eventually got married 3 years after.
Then you should expect the same deal the other dude got as well ..
She's not worth the effort then.
Her dad won't let her out anywhere, so no sex - and she won't let you drink? Fuck.
Yes her dad wont let her out... but I don't really drink much myself and who said no sex? lol
Ah thats the spirit! 
Her dad though, he comes from a differant culture where woman are second class citizens to be fair, while I think since he has married into and lives in a western society he should adapt - I can understand I guess.
Her dad though, he comes from a differant culture where woman are second class citizens to be fair, while I think since he has married into and lives in a western society he should adapt - I can understand I guess.
Ah thats the spirit!
Her dad though, he comes from a differant culture where woman are second class citizens to be fair, while I think since he has married into and lives in a western society he should adapt - I can understand I guess.
He's fucking anal seriously. He treats her like she's 10 years old. And what's worse is that she doesn't do much about it cause when she trys they tell her to move out and wont support her anymore.
When he's there you can feel the tension in the house, every time he would come home from work, the mother would have to stand up and walk over to the door to greet him and when he would sit down she would bring him dinner already cooked... and then bring him his mail. Sometimes there would be too much food on the plate, or not hot enough and he would tell her to arrang it with out taking a second bite. It's really messed up.
The mother is white too. It's kind of sick to watch.
dont waste your time on this one its not worth all the greif, and its only the beginning I say
I totally agree with Audra.
This girl may be nice and seem to have what you want, but it sounds like she's not able or willing to be her own person. She's under Daddy's roof and she seems to not mind following his rules, even though she claims to resist. If you continue to pursue her, I predict constant battles between what you think she should do as opposed to what he thinks she should do. You won't win. And the bottom line: I think she'd be using you to win more freedom from her father rather than wanting what you can offer her as a man. My vote is to find a woman who can make up her own mind about what she wants AND can do something about it.