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Godsloveapples

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I never said meaningless, but I really think its way to early to say love at this point. I dont mean to belittle what youre feeling or dismiss it. I just dont think youve known her long enough or spent enough time with her yet. Feelings of finding someone new and really liking them can be very intense and totally great but what you need to find out is can they continue and withstand time and lifes drama then at that point you can call it love.
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What's the difference between a crush and true love?
Crushes usually occur when you first meet someone and feel a special connection. Most are based on sexual chemistry and are accompanied by a rapid heartbeat, sweaty palms and, for an unfortunate few, drooling. A crush has more to do with lust and infatuation than with enduring love. It could stem from both a physical and a mental attraction.

The main difference between crushes and love is that crushes often happen when there is little chance of forming a relationship. These types of crushes are a safe way to explore your feelings for someone who you may think is unattainable. But sometimes the strongest variety of crushes occurs when the person is not completely outside of one's reach. These can closely resemble love, and if your feelings don't fizzle after you've snagged the object of your crush, they can lead to love.
crush, love or lust

I don't feel that she may be unattainable, but I'm not sure that she is. I like her for more than just her beauty, and she denies it now, but it did seem as if though she may have originally had some interest in me. By the way I don't see women as objects to be obtained,so it's just a case of poor wording, and for those of you who like to don't get on my case about it.
 

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I don't feel that she may be unattainable, but I'm not sure that she is. I like her for more than just her beauty, and she denies it now, but it did seem as if though she may have originally had some interest in me. By the way I don't see women as objects to be obtained,so it's just a case of poor wording, and for those of you who like to don't get on my case about it.
Im confused by this statement so are you saying shes giving you the Im not really interested vibes at this point?
 

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Im confused by this statement so are you saying shes giving you the Im not really interested vibes at this point?

Yes. She told me that she was only interested in me as a friend, but based off previous actions it may seem that she was lying. These previous actions may not indicate that she had interest in me, but it is a possible reason.
 

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I know it's just a crush, but I feel that it's based off more than just superficial reasons.
who ever said that crushes were only based on superficial reasons? not true
Yes. She told me that she was only interested in me as a friend, but based off previous actions it may seem that she was lying. These previous actions may not indicate that she had interest in me, but it is a possible reason.
OK dont hate me here but if shes giving you the not so interested vibe you could maybe be attracted to the chase. Again dont take this wrong, but could she have been interested and changed her mind now? If thats the case youll chase he away by persuing something that she doesnt want it will make her uncomfortable around you friendship is a good way to start to see if things develop and not seem to pushy
 

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who ever said that crushes were only based on superficial reasons? not true

OK dont hate me here but if shes giving you the not so interested vibe you could maybe be attracted to the chase. Again dont take this wrong, but could she have been interested and changed her mind now? If thats the case youll chase he away by persuing something that she doesnt want it will make her uncomfortable around you friendship is a good way to start to see if things develop and not seem to pushy

The last thing I would want is for her to feel that she could not be comfortable around me, but I've already screwed that up, and trying to be her friend seems to be pointless. My problem the whole time may be that I was always too afraid to even try pursuing her. It seems she may have been interested until I told her my age.
 

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Love comes over time, You really like someone and one day you may love them.
Other love such as love of your mother father daughter son brother sister
You should already know atleast one types of them love.


Romantic love is to easily used IMO, it takes time to love someone. :willy_nilly: < hes cool
 

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I was unaware that it was a disease/fungus???:unsure:

From some of the story's that I've heard or read is seems that it could cause one great pain or even death. What I want to know is just how serious is this feeling. Should it be taken lightly or seriously? I hear that some don't take it serious enough and others take it too seriously. All because of what they believe is love.
 
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