Kind Guy/Tough Guy

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ssl said:
You cannot have one over the other, and such balance is only in dreams.

Pick one or the other. Like electricity - it is either there, or not.
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I disagree completely.

For instance, while I would do anything for someone I love, I will also not tolerate them treating me like shit. I also need someone to stand up to me when I get a little cranky.

In someone who is emotionally healthy, there is always a balance.

I've dated guys who let me walk all over them, and I've dated guys who were complete assholes. There are men (and women) out there who have just enough of both. They are just hard to find.
 
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Yeah, if you think I was harsh in a few of the prior posts in here, I was a little agitated, because it sounds like classic guy-hunting. Seriously, figure out what you want, before you go and find it.

I thought about it last night, and yeah, there are balances. Listening to Eminem's Marshall Mathers LP cd right now, heh, "So Wrong" song, slightly reinforces this concept.

Anyways, I shall abdicate my position here, and leave the thread.

Cheers.
 
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LOL @ SSL, I understand what you are saying.

I dunno.. I guess its strange.. Joe was ONCE a nice guy and he TURNED into an asshole.. So hell. What do I know?
 
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Well, it seems you are on the path to figuring out what you want, and I congratulate you on your progress. There is still work to be done, but you will turn out just how you want to. If that means kicking or kissing ass or both, so be it.
 
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All I know is I was tired of being that shoulder everyone always ran to cry on when their boyfriends broke up with them.

Ya'll honestly don't want the super nice, super sweet guys.
 
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TheOriginalJames said:
All I know is I was tired of being that shoulder everyone always ran to cry on when their boyfriends broke up with them.

Ya'll honestly don't want the super nice, super sweet guys.
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James I was that way in highschool. I had a lot of female friends, and they always went after the "badboy/tough guy." It secretly brought me joy every time they came crying to me about how much of a jerk he was. :ninja
 
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so what the ladies are basically saying is that they want a nice guy that wont be walked over/taken for granted.........one that appreciates what he has but isn't obsessed to the point that he's happy to be downtrodden......one that will say that he has a life and is going to the pub with the boys for a few beers but doesn't object to you meeting up with the girls...one that goes out to have a good night without bothering anyone else,but if soneone he dont now gives it big he'll sort it out?
 
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I get what youre saying V. A guy that has confidence in himself kinda portrays that I think. The wussy clingy ones I think are insecure. Its nice to have a guy around that wont cower if he disagrees with you and is willing to stand up in what he believes in, and you included. Guys that are to nice do get boring who wants someone that agrees with you all the time and is a total suck up
 
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Here's a tough guy!
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