Are Secret Admirers Creepy?

I wouldn't say ' if I don't hear from you; oh well.' You are the one that is going after him. You want him to be happy about this situation. Maybe the best thing to do is keep it short after all. Just ask for the email address and be done with it, no point in making a huge deal over it.
 
Just go up to the kid and tell him what you feel. Giving a note to someone to give to someone to finally give to him will make things awkward. After the note is given one will have to approach the other...and if your this shy about it then you probably wont, and he may not. So just cut out all the nonsense and just tell him what you feel and hopefully things work out for the best.:)
 
You're overdoing it. If you do all of that in a class, when others can see it, then he'll be embarrassed. Start with just a note if you can't actually talk to him face-to-face. Forget the chocolates or anything else. Slip it into a book or in his binder or folder anonymously. Give the e-mail address and just hope he writes to it. I wouldn't do the poem. Most guys aren't into mushy poetry, so he won't be impressed. He sounds like a smart guy, so say something intelligent, instead of trying to impress him with rhymes.
 
I have to say if you are shy about asking him out etc, or telling him what you want
you have to ask youself what kinda of person he ism the subtle approach will work for someone else who is shy also but if this guy is an exhibitionist or so to sepak then the shy approach is not going to work for you yanno?
 
I think he is shy when it comes to girls, not neccacerily everything else... I think I am just going to drop by the attendance office, and drop it off on the desk... with my name attatched to it of course. If I did it here, do you think the chocolate would still be to much?
 
So this?
Hey Spencer, it is me from the academic team...
If our team doesn't go on,
I was wondering if we could keep talking?
I have appreciated having breif conversations with you...
I think it would be nice to get to know you better.
 
Can I give him a cheap box of candied hearrts instead? *eats chocolates*

I would skip giving anything.

So this?
Hey Spencer, it is me from the academic team...
If our team doesn't go on,
I was wondering if we could keep talking?
I have appreciated having breif conversations with you...
I think it would be nice to get to know you better.


Just talk to him. Let him know ya like em. If hes interested he will let ya know.
 
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