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boxer810 said:
I understand what you are saying, and I agree that people can get confused and upset over something that was a misunderstanding, but when someone negative reps you and INTENTIONALLY baits you by saying "BTW, you should see what so and so had to say about you in a PM" then THAT is DEFINITELY baiting someone, am I correct??

I don't intentionally set out thinking the worst of people, I accept EVERYONE here, until you give me reasons not to! And even then I try to be the bigger person and let things slide, until I just cannot take it anymore.
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When someone continuously leaves vague insulting comments in certain threads, what do you expect?

I left it alone for a bit, then one by one, people were noticing, pming me, and brought more attention to the fact that I wasn't saying anything to you, but yet there you were making those silly comments all the time.

Perhaps the saddest part is that I wasn't the only one who thought Bacon and Peter were overreacting, even mentioned so, and yet, there you and Deb were coming at just myself for whatever I opposed.

After realizing there was more behind the scenes with Bacon and what not, I made the apology thread. Then after you and Deb pos rep me, the silly taunting starts up again. I didn't understand that junk at all. At that point, it was not myself baiting anyone, since I specifially made a thread explaining myself. Instead, what I said was all forgotten about, the insinuations ensued and escalated into crazy assumptions.

/my explanation
 
debbie t said:
again to your initail statement.. i feel that all mods are fair and behave accordingly even in matters in which thay may not be enthusiastic,as i said before i have been supported and reprimanded..how fair is that?
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It's obviously not something everyone will be aware of, or affected by. People have expressed in this thread both ways. Some have seen it, some haven't.
 
Also, I view the same as others, people going in and out of phases. Some days less jovial, some days the opposite.
To out people because they have a "tone" to them that you dislike, well ever think about what that person thinks of your tone at times?
 
If you were thinking that those things were left for you, you must have, at some point, been feeling guilty about something you said! If you read back through, there have been some pretty shitty messages left in that thread LONG before you came here! And if a Mod had a problem with something that I was saying, as you continuously claim that they have, they would have said something to me long before it reached the point that it did. But it's totally fine now! I've done what I've done, said what I've had to say, and that's that! My conscience is clean my dear, can you say the same?
 
OK. Both sides have given their explanations. Both are at fault, and both need to drop it.

I see no reason why you can't get along if both aren't stubborn and both think their own shit does stink just like the rest of us.

No more holier than thou attitudes. Let's make a move is a positive direction.
 
boxer810 said:
If you were thinking that those things were left for you, you must have, at some point, been feeling guilty about something you said! If you read back through, there have been some pretty shitty messages left in that thread LONG before you came here! And if a Mod had a problem with something that I was saying, as you continuously claim that they have, they would have said something to me long before it reached the point that it did. But it's totally fine now! I've done what I've done, said what I've had to say, and that's that! My conscience is clean my dear, can you say the same?
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First, my post was pretty civil, there's no need to come at me with such a negative tone.

Also, I never said some mod had a problem with you. This is one example of something that has been mentioned here...additional comments being turned into a "fact", when in fact they are nothing but false.

It's all been blown out of proportion. Completely.

In my opinion: You said things and it appears to me that you are a certain way, when in fact you may not be. But, vice versa.
 
Pudding Time said:
OK. Both sides have given their explanations. Both are at fault, and both need to drop it.

I see no reason why you can't get along if both aren't stubborn and both think their own shit does stink just like the rest of us.

No more holier than thou attitudes. Let's make a move is a positive direction.
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Exactly.
 
I take offense to that, because NEVER since I've been here have I EVER taken a "holier than thou" attitude with anyone! I don't talk down to people and I will not concede that I was acting as if my "shit doesn't stink!"
 
Everyone is guilty of it at some point. With the exception of maybe one person here, and that is Grace.
 
I was willing, at one point, to move on from it, until Elle took offense from a post that wasn't even meant for her, and sent me that shitty negative rep! But, as of now, I'm willing to go on about my merry way, and stay out of one another's way.
 
It's time, I say it's time to settle down in here.

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*Hugs*

Thanks you my dear G...I was beginning to feel my temperature rise...sorta like that CCR song, Bad Moon Rising....LOL!!
 
boxer810 said:
I take offense to that, because NEVER since I've been here have I EVER taken a "holier than thou" attitude with anyone! I don't talk down to people and I will not concede that I was acting as if my "shit doesn't stink!"
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Well you haven't mentioned any regrets to your actions. Thus implies a holier than thou attitude. If this isn't the case, then I'll take take my words. Yet one did apologize for their actions, and one hasn't. Can you see why I would come up with the holier than thou comment?
 
I apologized to her, but you conveniently overlooked it. Matter of fact, I did so in a thread, in PM's AND in her reps.
 
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