opinions on v-day gift?

[Kat]

So we're really tight on money now but I saw this cute glass box that says I love you and various other cute messages on it...anyways I was thinking of filling it with little slips of paper with different things on it from me cooking dinner...to different sex things (postioions, games...etc.) ... my question is

Since he gets whatever he wants as far as the sex stuff goes...whenever he wants it...would that make this pointless...or is that something a guy would like either way?

I honestly dont know...

I know I know he's my bf so I should know...but I was just curious to as what ya'll would think... hmm... le, matt speak up too

 

[AUDRAA]

I think you should fill it with things with sayings like
I love you because.........
A daughter needs a daddy to...........
things like that because sex things are what he can get anytime right?

 

[Kat]

hmm...true

great idea audra...thanks...I didnt really think about it too much yet cause this was kinda a last minute idea...i was originally planning on a card and dinner

maybe I'll do that instead of my original idea

the only thing is he's not much for mushy stuff...I thought he might be more interested in the first idea...since there are a few (very few) things I do only because he likes it...so he doesnt ask me to do it much...I was thinking that would be a way for him to get everything he wants without feeling bad for asking

 

[BaggedSplash]

nope...just cook him something to eat then go sex him. thats all i would want from my gf (if i had one) on Valentine's Day

 

[AUDRAA]

lol men

 

[AUDRAA]

I honestly havent done a damn thing yet. Im thinking Ill just say hey pick something off the internet you want and Ill buy it for you. I know its bad, but when youve been together as long as we have its kind of a same ol same ol thing after awhile

 

[Kat]

I honestly havent done a damn thing yet. Im thinking Ill just say hey pick something off the internet you want and Ill buy it for you. I know its bad, but when youve been together as long as we have its kind of a same ol same ol thing after awhile

thats another thing about it...I was thinking of coming up with a few new ideas maybe we could try...to make it more interesting...

not even with just sex stuff on that i mean...maybe ideas on things we could do togehter that we havent done for awhile...or dont have time to do...just to make time

its not gonna be soley sex stuff...

 

[Homer]

when we were young and money was tight just loving each other was enough.

 

[andcuriouser]

Haha, why is mine and Matt's opinion specifically important? :tongue:

I think it's a good idea, if that's what you want to do. If he's not into the mushy thing, I'm sure he'd appreciate that sort of thing.

 

[BaggedSplash]

just cook him his fave meal and then treat him to "dessert" later on like i said above...

 

[Kat]

Haha, why is mine and Matt's opinion specifically important? :tongue:

I think it's a good idea, if that's what you want to do. If he's not into the mushy thing, I'm sure he'd appreciate that sort of thing.

ok i told you already...but haha...since you asked here i shall respond in kind...sinc you and matt seem to have sex so much...wondering if ya'll would still like something like that anyways

 

[Kat]

and bdn good idea too that was also a thought...but since the baby we havent really been able to do too much together anyways...so i wanted to kinda go a step further

 

[andcuriouser]

ok i told you already...but haha...since you asked here i shall respond in kind...sinc you and matt seem to have sex so much...wondering if ya'll would still like something like that anyways

Sure, Matt and I do it all the time.

I feel lame asking him for money to buy him a gift, so I get creative. And he likes creative.

 

[Kat]

being creative is def. fun

 

[Kat]

ok so im gonna do the box idea still but just in case..I still got him a card...and a movie he's been wanting for a long time...now I cant wait till tomorrow