Everybody seems to be mad at me.

[Darkstar]

Jamie, love...you know you totally rock.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Oh that's just your opinion, and you're biased.

 

[Darkstar]

Oh that's just your opinion, and you're biased.

Did you just quote me?
Imma hurt you boy....

 

[TheOriginalJames]

LOL

Yes, Please.

 

[Darkstar]

LOL

Yes, Please.

Your next avatar will be a picture of my handprint on your ass.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Always making promises...

 

[Tim]

You haven't led my life, bro.

You're right I haven't. But my post was generalized on the "nice guys finish last" statement. Not in particular, your life.

This is another general statement about how I feel....
It pisses me off when people bitch, complain and whine about their life and how sad it is. How they can't catch a break, how nobody likes them, yadda yadda, yadda. Yet they don't do anything to make it better. Nothing, nada, ziltch... I[SIZE=-1]nsanity is repeating the same thing over and expecting a different result.
When someone walks into a crowded room and publicly exclaims that nobody likes them, they are doing nothing more than looking for that sympathy pat on the head like a stray dog. Nobody likes to be around someone who wallows in their own self pitty, it's a kill joy to any gathering.[/SIZE]

 

[TheOriginalJames]

I don't recall asking for pity? I'm confused as to why I've been yelled at several times over the past few weeks. It's called venting frustration, relieving some stress.

But since your 'general' statement wouldn't have been said had this thread not been created, then yeah I know how you feel about it.

I won't vent my problems on the board, ever again.

 

[alleycat]

dont start with the nice guys finish last crap...
what i wouldnt give for a nice guy!

 

[Darkstar]

I had a nice guy, but as I said on another thread....Nice guys dont always stay nice guys.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Assholes ruin it.

 

[Darkstar]

Sadly, that is more often the case then not..

 

[Veronica]

I have NOT once yelled at you and neither has heather.
I am not mad at you either. You KNOW that you are my james and I could NEVER be mad at your for longer than a few minutes. lol But I wasnt ever mad at you this time, I was just trying to figure out some shit.

Its all good coolio. Noone is ganging up on you.

 

[AUDRAA]

See James we all still love you!!! Now stop crying or all of us women will have to come down there and kick your ass :woohoo:

 

[hhayes]

I have NOT once yelled at you and neither has heather.
I am not mad at you either. You KNOW that you are my james and I could NEVER be mad at your for longer than a few minutes. lol But I wasnt ever mad at you this time, I was just trying to figure out some shit.

Its all good coolio. Noone is ganging up on you.

Thanks V i was fixing to say! LOL


we love ya james

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Liars. all of yas.

 

[SilentEyz]

I don't recall asking for pity? I'm confused as to why I've been yelled at several times over the past few weeks. It's called venting frustration, relieving some stress.

But since your 'general' statement wouldn't have been said had this thread not been created, then yeah I know how you feel about it.

I won't vent my problems on the board, ever again.

Ok, This statement really bugs me.., actually it kind of pisses me Off..

First off, I really don't know what all is going on, nor am I sure is it any of my business.. And I mean hell no one really ever talks to me or pays attention anyway.. But I am going to say this.

James, When I say it pisses me off, Don't get me wrong, I am not implying you piss me off, or you saying it pisses me off.

But when you or anybody posts thier problems on the board.. It really is a good thing, It gives others things to think about and sometimes helps to take away from their own frustrations and problems.

And your supposed to be among friends, If all of a sudden you dont feel like you can post your problems, Then what the hell good is it to have friends.

And it's bullshit to have to feel like you shouldnt or can't openly post whatever is going on in your life.. And I don't mean only you, I mean anyone who is a part of this Forum.


maybe my point is not coming across as I need it to, But... Screw that I know what it is like to feel like you shouldnt be posing certain things, And when it gets to feeling like that.. its just not even right.

It's one thing for somebody like me.. to not be able to talk about things.. no one knows me.. But your part of this.. you should not have to feel that way.. and if you have to feel like that.. guess it don't leave much room for others...

I dont know whats going on.. but... forget it.. Im taking a break.. be back when Im back.

 

[AUDRAA]

woah Silent, its ok hun we are all friends here, and I think majority of us totally agree with you on this one.
Lately there seems to be some members that seem to think its ok to bash on others, which is not ok, and I as I think they are entitled to their opinions. I think they may be better off left unsaid. My mother taught me if you cant say something nice, dont say anything at all, and I think a few people around here really need to check themselves and listen to those words.

 

[Tim]

You all have to remember one thing... This is a public forum. If you post, expect it to be responded to. That doesn't mean that you will only get responces that you want to hear. You might get responces that are totally unexpected or uncalled for. Don't open yourself up to debate or ridicule if you cannot handle the reactions you might get from other members. It's easy to get caught up in your own little world where you think everyone here is close friends. Well, there are over 3000 members and dozens of guests every day, how many of them do you talk to? The very first rule in posting in forums is "if you have a problem with another member, then take it up with them in private." The second you publicly post your problems, they are no longer private and are up for discussion.
Don't turn me into the bad guy because I posted how I felt. I don't have a problem speaking my mind on public topics, and if it's private, then I will keep it private. If this offends you, then say so, don't beat around the bush.
I don't know of anyplace in the rules where it says you have to agree with everything that is posted.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

I never said I had a problem with what you posted? Just thought your mom would have taught you better with the old addage of 'if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all'.

Guess not.