I personally feel it is entirely your decision and no one should guilt trip you for that. I won't date a man with children either because the love and attention won't be all mine. There are people that just want that exclusivity in relationships.
I personally feel it is entirely your decision and no one should guilt trip you for that. I won't date a man with children either because the love and attention won't be all mine. There are people that just want that exclusivity in relationships.
It's like I'm a man now with a kid of my own because my girlfriend decided to leave me and our kid. I will not throw away my baby and I won't force anyone to be in a relationship with me. I don't even want to be in any relationship with anyone until she's an adult.
That is your preference, and your personal decision . There is nothing wrong with it. People should understand how to respect it. You don't like it and that's what matters