Ehhh... I'm just frustrated because I'm watching what I eat and I went out Monday without drinking a drop and still hovering.
Dane's Domicile Of Over Emotional Outbursts
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But abstaining from drinking for one night that you go out isn't going to change things.
Having said that...those last few pounds are going to be the hardest. Just be patient...they'll go away eventually.
I know this it's just frustrating
So I'm meeting up with Meg tonight at the Rustic Overtones concert.... She wants to "hook up". We hung out yesterday and I'm trying to be more understanding. I had a conversation with my half sister and a lot of things shes going through parallel Megs issues.
So Saturday did NOT go as planned. Met up with Meg... I knew she was going with a friend of hers but we were going to go home together. I felt bad most of the night because I was hanging around Meg and her friend was standing off in the crowd. Anyways... I left the crowd and motioned her friend in... I came back and thats when things went down hill...
Ugh OMG... I don't know wtf to believe... Apparently I left later than I thought Saturday night according to Meg. I approached her outside and I "put my hands on her" I have no idea wtf that means but I'm not a mean drunk at all and I'd never raise my hand to a woman...
Oh I thought it humorous she sent me a text at 11:37. I was laying in bed so I didn't see it and I never replied back. Seriously? You're going to go off on me and then text me today and expect me to answer? It was just a simple "Hey?" But she must think I'm stupid or hard up. I blocked her yesterday after she sent me the texts about Saturday so she cannot see my profile on Facebook.
I jotted down every text....
"... You grabbed my arm to get me to stop & talk to you outside... when i pulled away & tried to keep walking you grabbed my arm again & pulled me"
"youre lucky dave didnt havr security call the cops like he had planned to... He asked me if i wanted them to & i said no... Youre beyond lucky.."
"you know... I was highly considering taking you back too... But after last night... you need to seriously reevaluate your life & seek some help"
"especially for your drinking... do you realize what you could have been locked up for if the cops were called???"
" I wish you all the luck in the world with getting the help you need ... I hope you realize i can never trust you again because of what you did. & Im sorry"
I was discussing this with a woman I've been friends with online for over 12 years.
I jotted down every text....
"... You grabbed my arm to get me to stop & talk to you outside... when i pulled away & tried to keep walking you grabbed my arm again & pulled me"
"youre lucky dave didnt havr security call the cops like he had planned to... He asked me if i wanted them to & i said no... Youre beyond lucky.."
"you know... I was highly considering taking you back too... But after last night... you need to seriously reevaluate your life & seek some help"
"especially for your drinking... do you realize what you could have been locked up for if the cops were called???"
" I wish you all the luck in the world with getting the help you need ... I hope you realize i can never trust you again because of what you did. & Im sorry"
I was discussing this with a woman I've been friends with online for over 12 years.
Serious question, so don't get butthurt...but were you intoxicated to the level that you actually don't remember if any of that occurred??? That's what it sounded like in your previous post and, IMO, that should be a red flag that your drinking should be calmed down. You already know my opinion, though.
As for her...I'd block her number, too.
As for her...I'd block her number, too.
I honestly thought I left early... That was the goal. I was outside I looked at the clock down the street and it said 11:51... The place was overcrowded due to the show and the space wasn't very big. I'm not going to get butt hurt. I simply have no recollection of this said incident. Dave btw was the front man for the band that was playing....
I cannot on this new phone. The Aviator doesn't seem to have this feature and the last phone only blocked calls not texts.
As I was telling my friend though she's supposedly been abused in the past so even the smallest grab would set her off... We're had emotional break downs over a raised voice. I gave her another chance because my half sister is going through something similar; while not physically abused she was emotionally abused by our biological father. I saw her (Meg) exaggerate an argument where she text me saying her roommate called her a bitch as it carried over to her Facebook. She's not stable and my mother warned me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpWROeCC02Y
So I changed my digits... Won't be hearing from her unless she shows up somewhere I frequent in my area.
So I changed my digits... Won't be hearing from her unless she shows up somewhere I frequent in my area.
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