I'm about to give up and become a fucking hermit

[Dana]

well, what does it have to do with your not working?....you conveniently overlooked the "bar hopping and going out" bit I noticed.

(and you wont explain because you cant. Theres no reason for you not to work..simple)

I picked apart you're response and replied to the most ridiculous aspect. I'm a sucker for calling out idiocy.

 

[cam elle toe]

I picked apart you're response and replied to the most ridiculous aspect. I'm a sucker for calling out idiocy.

HA....dont try that again...you will only fail....(again) But I'll humour you...

If your too sick to work at even a menial job/volunteer work...then, common sense would dictate you would be too sick to date.
Dont you go out on your dates? Or do they visit you in your sick bed.
So...yeah, excuses excuses as per usual.

 

[Dana]

HA....dont try that again...you will only fail....(again) But I'll humour you...

If your too sick to work at even a menial job/volunteer work...then, common sense would dictate you would be too sick to date.
Dont you go out on your dates? Or do they visit you in your sick bed.
So...yeah, excuses excuses as per usual.

Do you not get the concept of Supplemental Income? You don't have to be bed ridden to collect it. You just have pass a doctors exam and prove that you have a sufficient enough disability to collect. God you're stupid.

 

[retro]

Do you not get the concept of Supplemental Income? You don't have to be bed ridden to collect it. You just have pass a doctors exam and prove that you have a sufficient enough disability to collect. God you're stupid.

If you're healthy enough to go out drinking and dating, then you should be healthy enough to work. :shrug:

 

[Dana]

If you're healthy enough to go out drinking and dating, then you should be healthy enough to work. :shrug:

It's easy to say this when it doesn't affect you.

 

[retro]

It's easy to say this when it doesn't affect you.

I'm bipolar and have social anxiety, amongst other physical issues... yet I still have a full-time job. I've seen people with the same types of issues sit around and do nothing but leech off of the government. What is it about your specific disability that prevents you from being a productive member of society?

 

[Pumpkin]

Addressing the OP, what are you like on first dates? Are you really full on? You posted a photo here of you and her on your first date, maybe it's just me but if a guy wanted photos of us together on our first date it would scare me off...

 

[skyblue]

I love how a few members can take a simple rant and turn it to shit. I applaud your talent for shit stirring. You all moan and gripe about me but you're like moths to a flame. I make your miserable posting experiences entertaining

i didn't...i just took the piss in 1 post

 

[Zorak]

Hermitism requires traditionally a spiritual commitment. They were people who shunned society to live as a recluse and serve religious pursuits.

 

[porterjack]

This forum needs a place where folk can rant an no-one reply directly, then everytime Dana wants to rant he can then nothing else would happen, unless of course he wants reaction

 

[Joe the meek]

I'm so tired of dead end dates... Fuck my life.

Sincere question, exactly what do you expect from "dates"? To meet people? To have fun? To start a relationship? To get laid? What?

Just curious.

 

[GoldDust Woman]

Instead of asking what you expect from a date, like Joe the Meek asked... what do you bring to a date? Your personality? Offer to buy her drinks? What?

You know, there's a standard rule of thumb regarding conversation when people start dating someone new. Questions like... "Where do you work". "Where do you live". "What are your goals in life"... etc.

It's quite possible that each and every woman you date think that a relationship with you is a road to nowhere.

You've got to have more to offer a woman than your body parts. That's just the way it is.

 

[Mystic]

i have a friend with your condition Dana, he's a hotel manager.

I also did a bit of light reading on your condition... seems a lot of people who have it have jobs: teachers aid, desk jobs. So I have to agree with everyone, if you are able to spend all this time on the computer, plus go out to bars, then you are more than capable of getting a job. You realize even a local call center would be a good paying job, which would allow you to sit at a desk like you d now while on a computer and assist people with whatever technology support for their phones computers, etc... the companies of these centers will train you. You'll earn above minimum wage plus get health benefits...AND if you are really go at it, there is room in these companies to move up. Anyway, just giving you ideas.

 

[alice in chains]

Instead of asking what you expect from a date, like Joe the Meek asked... what do you bring to a date? Your personality? Offer to buy her drinks? What?

You know, there's a standard rule of thumb regarding conversation when people start dating someone new. Questions like... "Where do you work". "Where do you live". "What are your goals in life"... etc.

It's quite possible that each and every woman you date think that a relationship with you is a road to nowhere.

You've got to have more to offer a woman than your body parts. That's just the way it is.

i completely agree with you. my only issue is the random, boring, same old questions crap is lame!! it's generic and everyone does it. push the boundaries and do things that might be a little into left field to make it exciting and really get to know the person.

sex doesn't last forever. sex isn't even any good if there's no emotion unless you're a complete drunk. building a relationship based on things that last is so much better.

 

[Hekler]

...I'm just new here and don't know you at all but your
avatar looks like what a partially clad woman might see
if she happened to turn towards the window at night.

Might I suggest getting a wig for your hand?

 

[redliner]

We should have a thread dedicated to Dana's love life. Were he can rate his dates and give picture of the girls he meets online. Then we can critique him. Seem like he would thrive on it seeing how he puts his life on here so willingly. One thread to devour the once a week dating problem threads.

 

[retro]

 

[skyblue]

and i'm not jumping on you here dana but....you really do need an image change,the hip hop look is a bit juvenile to be honest...just sharpen up a bit

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-y33Uq6HGs

 

[JuggsBunny]

The hip-hop look doesn't even look good on Eminem.

Time for a makeover if you're still cranking up one sweatpant leg to under the knee - all while wearing some shitty Nike high-tops. Or, if you're wearing jeans so baggy your ass is hanging out. Or, if you have a grill over your teeth and oversized bling-bling is your MO...

 

[alice in chains]

The hip-hop look doesn't even look good on Eminem.

Time for a makeover if you're still cranking up one sweatpant leg to under the knee - all while wearing some shitty Nike high-tops. Or, if you're wearing jeans so baggy your ass is hanging out. Or, if you have a grill over your teeth and oversized bling-bling is your MO...

stop it damn you...im about to eat dinner.