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A while back, at the entrance of a gym, there was a picture of a very thin and b...eautiful woman. The caption was "This summer, do you want to be a mermaid or a whale?"

The story goes, a woman (of clothing size unknown) answered the following way:

"Dear people, whales are always surrounded by friends (dolphins, seals, curious humans), they are sexually active and raise their children with great tenderness.
They entertain like crazy with dolphins and eat lots of prawns. They swim all day and travel to fantastic places like Patagonia, the Barents Sea or the coral reefs of Polynesia.
They sing incredibly well and sometimes even are on cds. They are impressive and dearly loved animals, which everyone defend and admires.

Mermaids do not exist.

But if they existed, they would line up to see a psychologist because of a problem of split personality: woman or fish?
They would have no sex life and could not bear children.
Yes, they would be lovely, but lonely and sad.
And, who wants a girl that smells like fish by his side?

Without a doubt, I'd rather be a whale.

At a time when the media tells us that only thin is beautiful, I prefer to eat ice cream with my kids, to have dinner with my husband, to eat and drink and have fun with my friends.

We women, we gain weight because we accumulate so much wisdom and knowledge that there isn't enough space in our heads, and it spreads all over our bodies.
We are not fat, we are greatly cultivated.
Every time I see my curves in the mirror, I tell myself: "How amazing am I ?!
 
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Wow. So, if you're thin you are incapable of having fun with friends and family?

If you're thin, you have no friends and are a cold and heartless mum?

Gotta love these "inspirational" posters.....;)
 

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Wow. So, if you're thin you are incapable of having fun with friends and family?

If you're thin, you have no friends and are a cold and heartless mum?

Gotta love these "inspirational" posters.....;)
Someone's always going to take something the wrong way.... This isn't about you or the other wafer thin chicks. It's about being happy with what the fuck you have and not changing because the fucking media thinks you should.
 

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i dont think thats the case cam. i know over here the mentality is that if you are not a size 2 then you are too fat. i do not personally agree with this. i have seen the stigma of being a size 10 or bigger. i also know that some people are just small no matter what, and some people are bigger no matter what.
 

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Someone's always going to take something the wrong way.... This isn't about you or the other wafer thin chicks. It's about being happy with what the fuck you have and not changing because the fucking media thinks you should.

chill pickle :D
 

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i dont think thats the case cam. i know over here the mentality is that if you are not a size 2 then you are too fat. i do not personally agree with this. i have seen the stigma of being a size 10 or bigger. i also know that some people are just small no matter what, and some people are bigger no matter what.

Im takin the piss....a bit.;)
Its true though. All of these sorts of "inspirational" posters whatever make out that if your thin....you are lonely and shallow and have no brain. It shits me to be honest.
 

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Im takin the piss....a bit.;)
Its true though. All of these sorts of "inspirational" posters whatever make out that if your thin....you are lonely and shallow and have no brain. It shits me to be honest.

i can understand that. but if you look at society as a whole, the skinner you are, the prettier you are, the smarter you are, etc etc. again you can be fat and shallow with no brain or skinny minny and shallow with no brain. the sad part is some people cant look past size (big or small) to see what a person is really like and come to a conclusion that way
 

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When I think of a woman being referred to as a whale I think of obesity, not a woman with "curves"
obesity isn't sexy
 

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i can understand that. but if you look at society as a whole, the skinner you are, the prettier you are, the smarter you are, etc etc. again you can be fat and shallow with no brain or skinny minny and shallow with no brain. the sad part is some people cant look past size (big or small) to see what a person is really like and come to a conclusion that way

Absolutely. It works BOTH ways...Fucking stereotypes shit me too.;)
 

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It's funny with inspirational quotes, every single one of them can have an exact opposite version that's just as "true".
But anyway, I never saw myself as a curvy girl...I have a decent rack but I'm built straight up and down for the most part, I was just always fat on top of it. Nothing to be proud of here :\

Hips and boobs look great though!
 

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It's funny with inspirational quotes, every single one of them can have an exact opposite version that's just as "true".
But anyway, I never saw myself as a curvy girl...I have a decent rack but I'm built straight up and down for the most part, I was just always fat on top of it. Nothing to be proud of here :\

Hips and boobs look great though!
I like boobs...
 

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Stereo types are shitty and unfortunatley too many people take too much stock in the way they "should" look. Im curvy Im proud and I've never had a complaint about it either ;)
 

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and Im thin and proud....and my friends (yes, yes I DO have friends) think Im an OK person too.;)

my kids may have something to say on the matter though:tooth
 
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