Open Relationships: Could you/Have you?

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Butterfly

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Again, you are wrong. Here is the true defintion, not one made up:
As a medical diagnosis, pedophilia (or paedophilia) is typically defined as a psychiatric disorder in adults or late adolescents (persons age 16 and older) characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children (generally age 13 years or younger, though onset of puberty may vary).
Meaning, just because one is married, this 'disorder' does not disappear. Does a crazy person become sane by marriage?? Hardly.

Then clearly your legal system is flawed... why is it legal to marry children?

Inept debaters?... like the ones comparing apples and oranges (more like busses - the concepts are that vastly different)?
 

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I wouldn't fancy having an open relationship but seriously comparing them to paedophilia? I don't get it at all
 

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Furthermore, adultery is illegal in many US states and across the globe. Adultery is an extramarital affair--regardless of consent. Marriages are considered nullified when it occurs. Therefore, adulterers are not married. Marriage is a legal matter and thereby follows laws of the land, less it be considered void.

Do you realize how full of shit you are? God, I hope you actually read this.

Guess what, I cheated, that made me an adulterer by that definition. But my marriage wasn't nullified, I had to go through the divorce process. As far as I'm aware, there is no state that will nullify a marriage based on adultery... fuck, I wish that there was, cause then I wouldn't have had to go through the entire divorce bullshit.

Additionally, is it adultery when all parties involved consent? Nope.
 

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I wouldn't fancy having an open relationship but seriously comparing them to paedophilia? I don't get it at all

He's in way over his head, so throwing out strawmen to distract from the fact that he has no clue what he's talking about.
 

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He's in way over his head, so throwing out strawmen to distract from the fact that he has no clue what he's talking about.


I just don't get the connection? I can't even begin to fathom how a relationship would function healthily being open but I realise I can only think with my own mind, at the end of the day what goes on between consenting adults and works for them is nobody elses concern imo
 

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I just don't get the connection? I can't even begin to fathom how a relationship would function healthily being open but I realise I can only think with my own mind, at the end of the day what goes on between consenting adults and works for them is nobody elses concern imo

That's because there is no connection :dunno
 

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Comparing paedophilia to an open relationship is weak.

What goes on between 2 consenting adults is really none of your business as long as it doesnt hurt YOU. and I assure you, you are not getting hurt by this
 

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Do you realize how full of shit you are? God, I hope you actually read this.

Guess what, I cheated, that made me an adulterer by that definition. But my marriage wasn't nullified, I had to go through the divorce process. As far as I'm aware, there is no state that will nullify a marriage based on adultery... fuck, I wish that there was, cause then I wouldn't have had to go through the entire divorce bullshit.

Additionally, is it adultery when all parties involved consent? Nope.


READ THE LAWS!!!! omg.
(it's also illegal in most states to have sex in any position other than missionary and only on certain days of the week.)

i see why he put you on ignore
 

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READ THE LAWS!!!! omg.
(it's also illegal in most states to have sex in any position other than missionary and only on certain days of the week.)

i see why he put you on ignore

What laws? Please show me a law stating that adultery nullifies a marriage. It is considered grounds for divorce, but not grounds for annulment. The only grounds I know of for annulment are marriages between relatives, bigamy, and marriages that were coerced or otherwise occurred via force. I'm sure there are other reasons for annulment, but adultery isn't one of them. Otherwise I wouldn't have had to go through my lengthy divorce process.
 

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so clueless you can't even see humor

Humor? Nah. Someone using a common saying incorrectly? Yeah, that's most likely it. It goes along with the whole, "I could care less" thing. If you could care less, then you're implying that you care. While the actual saying is, "I couldn't care less", which implies that you have no level of caring, or you care so little about something that there's no level below it.

:willy_nilly:
 

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they're discussing open relationships, adultery, sex with 101 people if they please. if this isn't the perfect recipe for drama, i don't know what is

Only for judgmental people. The OP asked if you could be in one and what you would do if asked by your lover to be in one, not for people to criticize the idea of open relationships. It works for some people as we've obviously read here. So what the hell is there to debate?
 

Alien Allen

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I just love it when people are so damn close minded

But I think some are just shit stirring the OP

This thread had lots to discuss without the holy rollers telling us how we all should live I guess
 
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