Wow. This is some thread. :ninja
Not so long ago, I posted directly to Dana, in another thread, about how I didn't like him for the longest time, and why. Prior to posting to him, I had taken a good long look at myself and HAD to ask myself WHY did Dana's posts and threads bug me so much? See, it's really not about Dana, at all. It's about how we feel about "things". Let's take this thread for example. A lot of the posts are attacks on Dana... "he's leaching off of the system... Or, that Dana lives with his parents... or, that he can dish it out, but he can't take it... "etc.
Is Dana critical of others? Yep. Is he rude to others? Yep. Does he complain a lot? Yep. Is he negative? Yep. HOWEVER... if y'all will take your focus off of that behavior, and really read him in a different light, he's a funny as shit guy. WE bring out the worst in Dana... not the best. So, who out there is willing to own their part in all of this? Let's see a raise of hands.
I challenge all of you Dana nay-sayers, to try and look at the positive side and see if after a week or so, you don't feel differently about Dana. Mainly, try responding to a post of his in a positive fashion, with a little laughter, and see if you don't get to know a different Dana.
It sure worked for me!