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KimmyCharmeleon said:
Make myself feel unwanted? I'm sorry, but that's a load of bull...I'm not the only small-chested person who is self-conscious.
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I love it when people prove my point with their own words.;)

I've been small chested and I never felt less of a woman, unwanted, or self-conscious for it(least not because of my tits). I never made it an issue, I never let it have power over how I thought of myself.

The only thing that has power over me is my stretch marks and weight gain from having children, which is something I'm working on so it's not an issue.
 
Small breasted women have good hold on the world, they are out there as much as any other sizeof breast. In modeling, celebrities, porn, etc. Sure people have a personal preference, but then so do you I'm sure on various topics/qualities.

It's all how you look at the world.
 
KimmyCharmeleon said:
People don't cause their own self-consciousness. I can think of a million things that would make someone self-conscious that are external to the person themself.
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Sorry, they don't make you. Given they might 'help' someone become naive/stupid and think that's how the world is and they aren't good enough because of it... but sorry, in the end the greatest factor and last word is yourself.

I don't blame society, media, or anything for thinking my stomach is disgusting and nasty... I miss how it was prior to kids, wish I took some different course of action. Me, myself, and I make it a issue. I make it a road bloke when someone is trying to compliment me, or when Bryan is trying to be intimate and I just don't feel sexy.

People do cause their self-consciousness tendencies. Just like people make themselves unhappy.
 
KimmyCharmeleon said:
People don't cause their own self-consciousness. I can think of a million things that would make someone self-conscious that are external to the person themself.
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So who here on Otz has been having a dig at the size of your breasts. From what I've seen, the only person moaning about it is you. Quite insulting really, these false accusations you are laying at the door of others.
 
Wow, I'm not even going to begin...it's narrow-minded to even DISMISS anything external as having any effect on self-conscious tendencies. The fact you hate your stomach is because flat ones have been glorified, how can no one see that? That's how everyone is brought up to think, don't you see? It's much more complex than a linear A to B cause-effect. It's a whole heap of shit.

*face-palm* Now I'm leaving...rant over.
 
KimmyCharmeleon said:
Wow, I'm not even going to begin...it's narrow-minded to even DISMISS anything external as having any effect on self-conscious tendencies. The fact you hate your stomach is because flat ones have been glorified, how can no one see that? That's how everyone is brought up to think, don't you see? It's much more complex than a linear A to B cause-effect. It's a whole heap of shit.

*face-palm* Now I'm leaving...rant over.
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Hey the thing that you dont like about your self. You can have fixed.
The thing we dont like about you, just makes us shit outta luck. We can't chamge your attitude. But you can change your boob size. Or just learn to love yourself!:willy_nilly:
 
Thornless said:
Sorry, they don't make you. Given they might 'help' someone become naive/stupid and think that's how the world is and they aren't good enough because of it... but sorry, in the end the greatest factor and last word is yourself.

I don't blame society, media, or anything for thinking my stomach is disgusting and nasty... I miss how it was prior to kids, wish I took some different course of action. Me, myself, and I make it a issue. I make it a road block when someone is trying to compliment me, or when Bryan is trying to be intimate and I just don't feel sexy.

People do cause their self-consciousness tendencies. Just like people make themselves unhappy.
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KimmyCharmeleon said:
Wow, I'm not even going to begin...it's narrow-minded to even DISMISS anything external as having any effect on self-conscious tendencies. The fact you hate your stomach is because flat ones have been glorified, how can no one see that? That's how everyone is brought up to think, don't you see? It's much more complex than a linear A to B cause-effect. It's a whole heap of shit.

*face-palm* Now I'm leaving...rant over.
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You don't see. Read my post again. I did acknowledge outside influence, but that's all it is. It only means something if you make it important.

I do not hate my stomach because flat ones have been glorified... and I don't want it flat. I want the excess skin gone so when I'm moving around, I don't feel it moving/jiggling. I love my curves I have, I don't want to be skinny. And it's not how everyone is brought up to see, I'm definitely not raising my children like that; although, I'm thinking you might of been.

Once you are out of the nest, you can see how things really are and can be. If you're willing to look and accept your life is what you make of it.

But anywho, I got errands to run. I've made a thread so this one can stay on topic
 
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