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Met a girl online, she's very pretty and we have the same interests in just about everything that I could think of bringing up in our conversations, doesn't do any drugs (I'm a former addict), hell we even have the same quirky personalities. I'm going to be visiting her pretty soon to see if we "click" (and have some hot sweaty sex :P ). If we do in fact click (and I know we will) she wants me to move down there (Michigan, I'm in New York State). This is where y'all come in, I'm kinda on the edge about this. Should I stay or should I go. On one hand I don't have anything tying me down here, but I will be miles away from the few family members that still talk to me, and my two close friends. On the other hand I will not be so FUCKING lonely anymore (been a very rough two years for me, wife goin to prison then us seperatin but I won't get into that). Just need some 3rd party opinions from people that aren't close friends or family, sorry if it's a bit long tried to keep it as short as possible while getting the point across.
 
Sorry, babes. You have not met her yet and it sounds like your putting some major eggs in a basket that might not pan out. Let it marinate for QUITE some time before you make that collosal move. It takes a LOT of time to get to know somebody and even if it's the interwebz, you STILL need to make many trips up there to be with her before you even THINK about that step.

Interwebz is some tricky shit, brah. Everybody is WONDERFUL on the interwebz until you see the bodies in the basement. ;D

Just saying. :D

Good luck! :D
 
Tangerine said:
Life is short. Ask yourself these questions: What the fuck could you lose? Would it be worth losing for a chance to be happy?
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:clap Well put my friend, I'm tired of letting opportunities pass me by because I'm too much of a pussy to jump on them, but like Tara said 'tis a huge step. Did something similar to this with my wife and that turned out pretty bad. That's why I'm a bit hesitant.
 
Taralynn said:
Sorry, babes. You have not met her yet and it sounds like your putting some major eggs in a basket that might not pan out. Let it marinate for QUITE some time before you make that collosal move. It takes a LOT of time to get to know somebody and even if it's the interwebz, you STILL need to make many trips up there to be with her before you even THINK about that step.

Interwebz is some tricky shit, brah. Everybody is WONDERFUL on the interwebz until you see the bodies in the basement. ;D

Just saying. :D

Good luck! :D
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Maulds said:
Where's the "I'm with Thundercunt" smiley?
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Not saying it's a bad idea but you've never even met the girl! At least spend some time with her first, and I mean a lot of time. I've been married to a girl from Oz for 8 years but I met her in person first, then spent 3 months living with her in her country. Long distant or e- relationships can work but you've got to have a real relationship too, more than anything! Good luck!:thumbup:)
 
how long have you been talking to this girl brother? I think you may be rushing things just a tad if you want to move to another state to live with this girl having never even met her face to face, I'm not telling you NOT to do it exactly just make sure you really think this through.
 
I made the mistake of moving cross country for someone on the web that I really thought I'd be happy with. We talked online, phone, cam and whatnot for about 2 years. I was a very lonely person. Come to be that the relationship lasted a year and I lost the rest of my family who still had talked to me along with a lot of good friends. It's been years now and I still haven't been able to get back to where my family is. I would never move again for what I thought would be happiness. You make your own happiness from inside. You don't need someone else to do it for you. I really hope you make the right decision cuz it's going to affect the rest of your life.
 
six6six6six6 said:
Met a girl online, she's very pretty and we have the same interests in just about everything that I could think of bringing up in our conversations, doesn't do any drugs (I'm a former addict), hell we even have the same quirky personalities. I'm going to be visiting her pretty soon to see if we "click" (and have some hot sweaty sex :P ). If we do in fact click (and I know we will) she wants me to move down there (Michigan, I'm in New York State). This is where y'all come in, I'm kinda on the edge about this. Should I stay or should I go. On one hand I don't have anything tying me down here, but I will be miles away from the few family members that still talk to me, and my two close friends. On the other hand I will not be so FUCKING lonely anymore (been a very rough two years for me, wife goin to prison then us seperatin but I won't get into that). Just need some 3rd party opinions from people that aren't close friends or family, sorry if it's a bit long tried to keep it as short as possible while getting the point across.
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Meet her, spend time OUT of the sack. Not saying NOT to have sex, but don't let it be the only thing you two are focused on over your time spent there. Take her out, even if it's just to the park to talk :blah: and have a picnic. If you really love her and things more than "click", then you'll be back to visit before making a decision to just up and move. And whatever you do, don't get her pregnant. :2cents: Have fun and I hope all goes well! :)
 
dkwrtw said:
how long have you been talking to this girl brother? I think you may be rushing things just a tad if you want to move to another state to live with this girl having never even met her face to face, I'm not telling you NOT to do it exactly just make sure you really think this through.
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Don't worry mate, I'm meeting her shortly. Tell me you could say no to this face :


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