I remember, waaaaaay back in kindergarten, me and another kid were playing with scissors and I cut the other kid's hand. The teacher simply yanked me out of the room and took me to the principle's office, where the principle proceeded to yell at me--it scared the wits out of me, really, and I saw nothing being done about the fact that the OTHER kid was playing with scissors too. He simply went to the nurse, that's all. To make matters worse, my parents didn't really handle the situation all that well... pretty much they just took away all of my usual privilages for about a week but didn't really help me understand WHY they were doing it. I mean, I was young back then and I was kind of thick; as far as I was concerned, everybody was just being mean all of a sudden.
That's what I think sucks about people and society at large sometimes. They're quick to dish out punishments, but at times they don't really stop to consider whether or not the right message is getting through. Yes, kids need to be taught right from wrong. But some of the methods that teachers (or sometimes parents) try to use... are they really teaching anything? :/ At least in a way that makes SENSE to the kids?