KimmyCharmeleon
Well-Known Member
doesnt matter what I do or say. she has doubts that I like her.
we can be laying in my bed and be 6 inches a part and not touching. shell be like I need attention now. you never show me any attention. right after a nice date where I only see her with a roomful of people so to speak
When her and her last boyfriend had sex, he could only do it while watching a porno other wise he couldnt stay hard. So i understand how she feels, but for me to get the "punishment" for what these guys did is not cool.
I dont go into relationships thinking this girlfriend is gonna be like the one that cheated on me and got pregnant.
I hate to give up on her but its not doing us any favors
She really needs to stop worrying, she has to think - that after all her insecurity and immaturity, you are still there for her, obviously you do like her to be able to put up with that but she can't see it.
As for the attention thing, guys shouldn't have to make the first moves all the time. If I was in that situation I would've just moved closer, what's the big deal? I'm sure any boyfriend would like their girl to get closer to them without asking.
She doesn't realise what she actually has now, and will probably realise what she has/had, when/if she loses it.
I think you need to talk about it with her, very seriously.