Caught a glimpse of a text msg

[justin4747]

So Im sitting on the sofa with a girl ive been seeing for a couple months now watching TV. Let me first say we never agreed to be 'exclusive' in our relationship, but I have been and without directly asking her also believed she had been as well. Anyway, shes leaning back on me holding the phone up so I literally dont even really need to take my eyes off the TV to see the texts. Ill call him bob and her troll.

Bob: you work tomorrow?
Troll: Yep
Bob: how about friday?
Troll: yeah and im busy all weekend. why?
Bob: just wondering im off till sun.
Troll: Nice. do want a sexion? (yes it said "sexion" sex session i assume? ) How about tommorow night?

Thats the last one I saw. Now, this is pretty fucking straight forward as to what this means lol. I didn't say anything yet, because im pretty damn curious to see how she handles it tonight when i talk to her like we normally do. But without me actually disclosing anything about how i personally feel about her/where the relationship is going...... throw out some comments or suggestions on the sitution please... just cause i need some human feed back other than my own head. anything at all.

 

[Alien Allen]

you see the strangest damn stuff on the internet I tells ya.

Oye

 

[BadBoy@TheWheel]

On this day...In this thread....Nothing happened

 

[Thornless]

Since she wasn't hiding it from you, I'd of called her on it right there... rather than asking a bunch of strangers. IJHO

 

[RedRyder]

Since you're not exclusive.... she's not hiding anything... otherwise she wouldn't have been so free with the texting in front of you.... You Got Nothing....

You do your thing... she does hers.....

Although... when she was with you she should have only been with you....

 

[JanieDough]

tell her you want to be exclusive and see what she says

 

[Maulds]

tell her you want to be exclusive and see what she says

I want a sexion

 

[MMMMatilde]

That's the problem, open relationships hardly work lol

One will get jealous of the other, always.

It's silly. She is just sticking to her end of the open relationship deal. haha, that's what you get for putting yourself in that situation.

Maybe it was a spelling error

 

[Alien Allen]

Like I said you see the weirdest stuff on the internet

 

[satinbutterfly]

Perhaps she was testing you to see what you would do/say. Women are sneaky. :ninja

 

[ColicKillswitch]

If you're not dating, then shes not doing anything wrong. Thats how it is

 

[Alien Allen]

Perhaps she was testing you to see what you would do/say. Women are sneaky. :ninja

If you're not dating, then shes not doing anything wrong. Thats how it is

This is about 4 months old :jk

 

[ColicKillswitch]

This is about 4 months old :jk

Oh wow, I'm stupid.

 

[Ryder]

Strange first post is all I have to say.

 

[Jessica]

this is kinda an old thread you know...

 

[Alien Allen]

Strange first post is all I have to say.

First and only post isn't it??

 

[DuhhhBlond]

he could have at least had the decncy to come back and tell us what happened..

and what a sexion was like..

 

[Kaylahambrick]

If this happened to me, I would be straight up with her and ask her up front. I wouldn't sugar coat anything, because sugar coating gives them time to make up a lie. I would honestly ask her what that was all about. Make sure you pay attention to her gestures and where her eyes go. It's always easy to figure out when someone is trying to lie!

 

[sulayman]

I think that you have to get some balls and man up about your relationship. You need to discuss where it is going and make sure everyone is on the same page otherwise you will keep getting frustrated. She may think that you are doing the same and having sexions of your own somewhere else and since you have not set the rules and standards then you dont know what is going on

 

[Dreek Lass]

That's the problem, open relationships hardly work lol

One will get jealous of the other, always.

It's silly. She is just sticking to her end of the open relationship deal. haha, that's what you get for putting yourself in that situation.

Maybe it was a spelling error

I agree. It is like children that act out; people want rules and boundaries sometimes. We need them. When we are so open sexually and emotionally to everyone else, whilst we claim to have a partner - but just in a n open relationship, things go tits up pretty quickly, I have found. I would never partake in an open relationship. I want one person, and the percentage of them cheating and giving you an STI is high enough, without introducing other people into the mix.