Some women have balls.

[AUFred]

My wife just forwarded an e-mail she rec'd this morning from a friend of hers.

Let’s plan a cook out at your house with swimming. Don’t worry we’ll split the food and drink.

Huh? OK then. I sent my wife a note back and asked when is this happening?

 

[dasb00T]

My wife just forwarded an e-mail she rec'd this morning from a friend of hers.



Huh? OK then. I sent my wife a note back and asked when is this happening?

Uh. They just invited themselves without asking?

 

[fightinghumps]

Sounds like some of my wife's friends.

 

[AUFred]

Uh. They just invited themselves without asking?

ballsie huh? If someone kind of invites themselves in a personal conversation or on the phone that just strikes me different than an e-mail or text.

 

[dasb00T]

ballsie huh? If someone kind of invites themselves in a personal conversation or on the phone that just strikes me different than an e-mail or text.

Let me ask you this. Does this particular friend work?

 

[AUFred]

I'm thinking about buying my wife's friend a jockstrap. I wonder if she would get it.:24:

 

[AUFred]

Let me ask you this. Does this particular friend work?

Yeah she does.

 

[fightinghumps]

She probably already has one.

 

[Staci]

thats so wrong on so many levels

 

[AUFred]

thats so wrong on so many levels

That's why my wife sent it to me. She was looking for a reaction. :24:

 

[dasb00T]

Yeah she does.

I see. I was thinking maybe idle time and she just needed something to do/get excited about if she didn't have a job. Anyways, my wife does this type of thing to me all the time.

"Yeah, we're going out with this other couple on Saturday night."

"Oh really? Glad I could be a part of that decision making process."

 

[AUFred]

She probably already has one.

Maybe just a cup then.

 

[fightinghumps]

I see. I was thinking maybe idle time and she just needed something to do/get excited about if she didn't have a job. Anyways, my wife does this type of thing to me all the time.

"Yeah, we're going out with this other couple on Saturday night."

"Oh really? Glad I could be a part of that decision making process."

My wife tried that with me a few times. Didn't end well for her.

 

[Staci]

I see. I was thinking maybe idle time and she just needed something to do/get excited about if she didn't have a job. Anyways, my wife does this type of thing to me all the time.

"Yeah, we're going out with this other couple on Saturday night."

"Oh really? Glad I could be a part of that decision making process."

but see thats different to me. its not like her friend emailed her and said hey party at your house saturday night. i dont know. i make plans for us all the time. if i wait for fuzz to, i would still be waiting

 

[AUFred]

I see. I was thinking maybe idle time and she just needed something to do/get excited about if she didn't have a job. Anyways, my wife does this type of thing to me all the time.

"Yeah, we're going out with this other couple on Saturday night."

"Oh really? Glad I could be a part of that decision making process."

If my wife calls me and says we are going out to dinner with friends I am cool with it unless it is someone I don't care for. I just have a hard time with people volunteering my grill, my pool, my house and my time. Because the yardwork has to be done & the pool vacuumed before company comes over.

 

[sspark]

Some of us girls are kinda pushy . Especially if it sounds like a party atmosphere may be involved .

 

[AUFred]

but see thats different to me. its not like her friend emailed her and said hey party at your house saturday night. i dont know. i make plans for us all the time. if i wait for fuzz to, i would still be waiting

Women are naturally more social and more plan oriented. I might invite a couple over to watch a sporting event on TV. I would never volunteer someone eles's home.

 

[AUFred]

Some of us girls are kinda pushy . Especially if it sounds like a party atmosphere may be involved .

She has been to our house several times. I am a decent bartender so that works well.

 

[Staci]

Women are naturally more social and more plan oriented. I might invite a couple over to watch a sporting event on TV. I would never volunteer someone eles's home.

thats the key point right there. like you said now you have to clean YOUR house, YOUR pool, YOUR grill and YOU didnt plan the party

 

[dasb00T]

but see thats different to me. its not like her friend emailed her and said hey party at your house saturday night. i dont know. i make plans for us all the time. if i wait for fuzz to, i would still be waiting

Yeah, I get that. Still, I hate, hate, hate, hate others making plans for me when I didn't have any part of them.

I agree that Fred's example is much worse and I would be pissed. Even so, I feel like I run every little decision by her yet don't get the same respect at times.