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Ok ...most of you know that I have issues with my significant other. But yesterday he blindsided me with this.

His computer is located in our bedroom, and I use it when I'm feeling lazy and dont wanna get dressed to go into the living room to use mine (We have a roommate). A few days back, I got out of the shower and was sitting in front of his computer in a towel. I was having a little trouble getting motivated to get dressed that day (hence the "blarg" thread).

Anyway, his webcam light stays on whether hes broadcasting or not, and mine does not, so I got a bit creeped out and moved it to where it wasnt pointed at me, considering Im in a towel and nothing more at this point.

Fast forward to last night. He calls me at work, asking my why his webcam was pointed at our bed. It seems without trying to, I had positioned it perfectly. His first thought was that I was putting on a webcam show for someone.

I wasnt mad though, its like I cant get mad anymore....just really hurt.

Gee...thanks for the faith in me, honey.
 
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Veronica

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hmm.. thats screwed up. U should probably have a long talk with him. Why would that even pop in his head?
 

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Every other relationship that hes been in, save for one, has ended because the girl cheated on him. I guess hes just looking for that in me.
 

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May be I've got this all wrong but it sounds very creepy to me, it sounds like he's trying to spy on you from work!:eek: I agree with V here, I think you need to have a very long chat with him!
 

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Hes a mechanic, he cannot possibly get away with spying on me while hes at work. He just assumed I was putting on a show for someone else online.

And the talks dont help. He admits he has issues, but does nothing to change it.
 

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I'm sorry to say it but he's going to have a sad and lonely life if he can't trust you or any girlfriend he might ever have. May be you should suggest that he goes for councelling.
 

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I'm sorry to say it but he's going to have a sad and lonely life if he can't trust you or any girlfriend he might ever have. May be you should suggest that he goes for councelling.
I agree. It's not really about you, it's about him anf his way to see women and trust... If he doesn't change that he is going to be sad and lonely.
 

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I think you both should give each other some time to think over your relationship... FAITH / TRUST is very important in such relationships.... so my suggestion is that make sure that are you really made for each other..
 

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this is just something he will have to grow out of. He's been hurt in the past obviously, and it is not unusual for someone to feel this way towards someone they really care about. It is not healthy, but not unusual. It should be okay. :)
 
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