I do think we can control energies. Some call it ESP, some call it 'connections' or empathy That feeling that you get when you think of someone and they call. Or, maybe you were sick or got hurt and your mom calls because she suddenly became concerned, but wasn't aware of your malady .
We all have it to some degree, but too often shrug it off as 'coincidence'. How often do we read of some poor schmoe down on his luck, buys a lottery ticket and wins or finds something that gets him a big reward?
When you open your eyes in a completely dark room, you might notice what looks like graininess. Those are molecules in the air. Electric charges, if you will. Every breath changes the course of those molecules. It may seem really farfetched to think that those molecules in the room in turn change others, but....is it that farfetched? Or is it like placing a finger in the sand at the beach....you changed the sand in the vicinity-do you really know if you changed the sand 100 ft away? A mile? Science would probably say no, but in a way, you have, if only by pressing those grains against others...and against others, ad infinitum. And, when you remove your finger, those grains won't go back to their original formation. The hole will be filled, but grain A won't be where it was, and so on.
It's the same with time/energy/life force. It's dynamic, it's connected to everything else-you just have to know how to use it, manipulate it as best you can, but understand that, even if you don't, it is infinite with or without you. And can be totally random.