What would YOU do...?

[Sim]

I'm just curious.

My ex has always had a lot of women "talking" to him via the net. A lot of them start to fall for him...he's a salesman, after all, and can sell himself the best. He has no intentions of ever getting with these women, or returning the love they have for him.

I find this repulsive. I'd love to warn the women...but how the heck does one go about doing such? I mean, other than hacking his computer and getting all the conversations on all the same dates, or whatever.

I really wish he'd just find some nice hometown gal and settle down already, but I know that's just not his nature. Took me ten years to figure that one out.

He's also an alcoholic with a history of spousal abuse...and has the tendency to be bi-sexual.

*shrugs* I just don't want to see other women go through what I went through, and I really don't want to see those women I've known for a while falling for his bs lines...so what would you do?

 

[lemon]

write an editorial to that city's local newpaper if they have one and describe him with out slandering him ...

:dunno

 

[Rusteh]

it's part of experiencing life...you can't hold everybody's hand and point out the obvious for them...it's something they'll have to learn.

 

[OUZBnd]

why would you want to be involved anymore than you have to with him. Let the women learn on their own. If they are naive enough to fall in love over a chat program then maybe they need the lesson. Its not really any of your business any more, is it?

 

[RedStangGT2000]

Nothing you can do :dunno

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: What would YOU do...?

Yeah...it is my business for four reasons I'd prefer not discussed in the forums, but have no problem discussing in private. *smiles*

why would you want to be involved anymore than you have to with him. Let the women learn on their own. If they are naive enough to fall in love over a chat program then maybe they need the lesson. Its not really any of your business any more, is it?

 

[Tazzy]

in this case Just move on with your life and dont look back :dunno

 

[hhayes]

it can be hard not to be somewhat involved with someone's life once you are not together anymore, you just have to let it be and be glad its not you falling for his BS any longer and hope for the best

 

[Tazzy]

Sim you seem like a soft hearted person ... Kinda like my new Room mate who is still involved with his X after she used him took him for every thing he had and even left him with the bills and they werent even married ........ ...... SO do what you feel is right just dont let him us you any more :dunno

 

[Sim]

Yeah...again...I'm not going to be used by the guy. But I have plenty of reasons to still be involved in the life that he chooses to live.

Chat's a great place if ya want details on this one. lol Or hey, hit me up on an IM...that's what those buttons are for down there...

 

[Veronica]

I dunno the whole story, so its hard to give advise on this.. LOL.. But, I would say to try to stay out of it. Im sure you have some good reasons to stay involoved, but those girls are big girls and they should know not to fall for someone on the internet. (or atleast most of the guys)

You could always go into his email account and start sending messages to all the chicks in his address book.

 

[Vfast]

Re: RE: What would YOU do...?

Sim you seem like a soft hearted person ... Kinda like my new Room mate who is still involved with his X after she used him took him for every thing he had and even left him with the bills and they werent even married ........ ...... SO do what you feel is right just dont let him us you any more :dunno

how do you always end up shacking up with these guys? :rofl

 

[Tazzy]

This isnt shack up Vfats LOL ,this is a room till i can get a job .... Nothing more ... Just another Mustang :dunno :fu

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: What would YOU do...?

lol I'll give you the story in private.

Hm. I do have access to his email accounts... *goes off for a bit*

I dunno the whole story, so its hard to give advise on this.. LOL.. But, I would say to try to stay out of it. Im sure you have some good reasons to stay involoved, but those girls are big girls and they should know not to fall for someone on the internet. (or atleast most of the guys)

You could always go into his email account and start sending messages to all the chicks in his address book.

 

[Rusteh]

sim...i ask you this...why ask us our opinions on this matter when u already seem to have your mind made up on what you were going to do?

 

[Sim]

It isn't that I don't want your opinions. It's that there is an extra piece to the puzzle that most know of already...and there's one individual I'd prefer not know about that last piece. If I thought said person would just ignore the fact, then I wouldn't have an issue telling all.

If you want the last piece, I can PM you with it.

I was trying, though, to get around all of that and ask opinions without all the facts having to be involved.

 

[fio1]

He might be a woman hater and is having a kick out of testing his way to dominate them. Pray that he finds himself a boyfriend instead of another unlucky girl...

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: What would YOU do...?

:funnah :rofl :funnah :rofl :funnah

Oh wow...for that comment alone, I love you... *giggles*

He might be a woman hater and is having a kick out of testing his way to dominate them. Pray that he finds himself a boyfriend instead of another unlucky girl...

 

[dt3]

Re: RE: What would YOU do...?

Yeah...again...I'm not going to be used by the guy. But I have plenty of reasons to still be involved in the life that he chooses to live.

Chat's a great place if ya want details on this one. lol Or hey, hit me up on an IM...that's what those buttons are for down there...[/quote]

hehehe...Sim told me to push her buttons "down there"...hehehe

Sorry, I have nothing productive to add.

 

[Rusteh]

u me and the other 3/4th's of this community :lol