what to do in my situation...

Goat Whisperer

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Well, I got this new "friend" whom I hate. She is Latino and my best friend is peruvian, and I hav been friends with paloma, the one from peru, since like 7th grade right? Well, she became friends with paola before I meant paola.

Well, what happened is your normal drama, she told her that she likes drake, her friend since like 6th grade, and Paola told drake that paloma likes him. So he asked her out but, she said no because we no he is gay and would just be using her to proove that he wasn't (Long story) and now there friendship is all messed up.

This wasn't the first time Paola had done something like this so she told her she was done being friends with her, especially cuz her mom didn't like her. So then she went crying to all of our friends (Including me) that paloma was mad at her and she didn't know why cuz she wouldn't tell her blah blah blah. All she really wanted was attnetion

Then paloma didn't want to tell everyone that she liked drake so she didn't tell them why she was mad at her... and now pretty much everyone but, me hates her. I don't want to be friends with her, my mom doesn't liker she says she has really low self-esteem, but, I don't want to tell her cuz she is better friends with all my friends (Not because she is more fun person but, because everyone feels bad for her cuz she says her mom is going to send her to mexico every other week)

I'm done with this girl, but, I don't want to loose all my friends in the process of loosing her. Why can't her mom just send her to mexico already!!!
 
you dont need to base your friendship with one person on your friendships with others. This makes you a bad friend. If you don't like someone, then DONT be their friend, period. Now this doesn't mean you have to be ugly or talk shit about them...just distance yourself and don't hang out with the person.
 
As I said this girl is a totally and complete cry baby, she wants no needs attetntion to always be on her. If she thinks I'm not hanging out with her cuz I'm mad, and she most certainly will. She will tell everyone in my school that I am a terrible friend because I am mad at her and won't tell her why, even if I do tell her why! I just wish she would go away!
 
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