Mockingbird
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I thought I liked my child's girlfriend, they have been dating for many years, but recently she started to do things that made me question her as a person. I guess I had always had the thought that I would hope my children's choices for spouses would be people that had good qualities. In the worst case scenario they would be the ones that would carry on the family line if he should die.
This girl has started to get very greedy about things, yet lacks any sort of ambition to do the work necessary to get the better things in life, she acts entitled. I have had just about enough of that and told my son not to bring her to my house anymore, the only one entitled here is me, I am the one that worked for my life. I know ultimately he chooses who he wants to be with, but I hope he see's she might be a poor candidate for a wife. If I try to show him the shortcomings in this girl, I am the bad guy, so whats a mother to do?
This girl has started to get very greedy about things, yet lacks any sort of ambition to do the work necessary to get the better things in life, she acts entitled. I have had just about enough of that and told my son not to bring her to my house anymore, the only one entitled here is me, I am the one that worked for my life. I know ultimately he chooses who he wants to be with, but I hope he see's she might be a poor candidate for a wife. If I try to show him the shortcomings in this girl, I am the bad guy, so whats a mother to do?