Soulmates?

[Ezpzpizzi]

So...soulmates, what do you guys think? True or false?
Well I sit on the fence with this one, sometimes I'm like, "Yes the people that stay together must be soulmates, and God knows where everyone will end up"
But then I'm like, well you could have more than one soulmate..and find more than one. And sometimes I just think most love is lust to be honest.
Give me insight and elaboration.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Intriguing. I would like you to elaborate on the "And sometimes I just think most love is lust to be honest." hypothesis.

Why do you feel this way?

 

[All Else Failed]

meh...I think love is just two people getting along and growing with each other over time.

 

[Ezpzpizzi]

Intriguing. I would like you to elaborate on the "And sometimes I just think most love is lust to be honest." hypothesis.

Why do you feel this way?

Well, you cannot fall in love with someone that you are not physically attracted to am I correct? And when you think, wow i love this person, you want to kiss them and be with them, mostly physically when you think about it. As long as the person is bearable it could be highly possible.

 

[Ezpzpizzi]

meh...I think love is just two people getting along and growing with each other over time.

I may have to agree with you on that one :/

 

[Peter Parka]

Well, you cannot fall in love with someone that you are not physically attracted to am I correct? And when you think, wow i love this person, you want to kiss them and be with them, mostly physically when you think about it. As long as the person is bearable it could be highly possible.

I disagree, its quite possible to fall in love with someone over time who you arn't initially physically attracted to, sometimes a persons personality shines through and makes them attractive. Love dosen't just begin and end with sex!

 

[Miranda]

I personally don't believe in the whole soul mate/ one person for everyone thing. Relationships, on any level, take time and effort.

 

[Ezpzpizzi]

I disagree, its quite possible to fall in love with someone over time who you arn't initially physically attracted to, sometimes a persons personality shines through and makes them attractive. Love dosen't just begin and end with sex!

Well its hard for me to gain interest in someone I don't want to kiss and such.

 

[HouseOvaries]

No such thing as soulmates, because not everyoone truelty finds the right person they're looking for 99.$ of the time. Maybe their personality changes as they progres through their rlationhsip[d or soemthig.

 

[Breath]

No such thing as soulmates...

I agree.

 

[Homer]

quote=Peter Parka;359596]I disagree, its quite possible to fall in love with someone over time who you arn't initially physically attracted to, sometimes a persons personality shines through and makes them attractive. Love dosen't just begin and end with sex![/quote]
:withstupid: i'm with Peter on this one and feel my wife is my soulmate and best friend.

 

[Ezpzpizzi]

I do agree..but in a lot of cases, most interest starts with attractiveness towards each other, not necessarily sex..but like, hey they are alright looking, you know?

 

[hubersrj]

Well, you cannot fall in love with someone that you are not physically attracted to am I correct? And when you think, wow i love this person, you want to kiss them and be with them, mostly physically when you think about it. As long as the person is bearable it could be highly possible.

Not at all...I think you can fall in love with someone very easily, even before you the attractive thing really kicks in...it's a personality thing...

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I believe in soulmates. I believe that everyone has a match made in heaven somewhere out there for them. Maybe Im a hopeless romantic, I dunno

 

[hubersrj]

I beleive in it too, but not the way that pizzi is making it out to be. But, that's the difference between a 14 year old girl and a 32 year old man.

 

[Ezpzpizzi]

I beleive in it too, but not the way that pizzi is making it out to be. But, that's the difference between a 14 year old girl and a 32 year old man.

When you say that is that undermining my inelegance..or just different opinions?

 

[Peter Parka]

When you say that is that undermining my inelegance..or just different opinions?

Its not being patronising or anything, its just biological make up. When I was 14 I used to totally ignore ugly girls and lust after the pretty ones, that because I was a teenager raging with hormones who hadn't developed my personal relations skills much. I think what you're saying is normal for someone your age but still something you will grow out of.

 

[Ezpzpizzi]

Its not being patronising or anything, its just biological make up. When I was 14 I used to totally ignore ugly girls and lust after the pretty ones, that because I was a teenager raging with hormones who hadn't developed my personal relations skills much. I think what you're saying is normal for someone your age but still something you will grow out of.

Ha but hey, i can't tell you how many people i've liked that weren't good looking :/
I'm not stupid and im not generic...im a little different.