*sigh* As one door closes, another opens.

[The Joker]

Well, that girl who lives like 4hours away, nothing is gonna happen for at least 4years.

Anyway, I was talking to this other girl, and she was saying how she liked a guy, then made me tell her who I liked, I told her it was her, but it was ok because it's better I find out nothing will happen now then before I get too into it. And I said it was ok that she didn't like me and that I'd rather her be happy.

Then she was like

"HEY HEY HEY, Hold up!

I never said I didn't like you"

"It's just
Maybe if I knew you better"

Coz I'd just met her, ok, fair enough.

So, any suggestions for this one?

She's got a friend over her house atm, she might be back on MSN later.

She's coming to the movies with 2 of my friends who are also my friends and their friends.

So any suggestions for this one? It's showing some progress.

I guess I need to let her get to know me better, but apart from that, anything else I can do?

 

[nursey1972]

my only suggestions is to take as much time talking online & getting to know each other... and hope like hell that she is being as honest as you are, so that things have a chance to progress...

take it slow...

 

[The Joker]

Alright. She doesnt get on MSN much, however. But she might be back on later tonight, who knows? Lets hope she is...

 

[nursey1972]

my other advice is:

don't be negative about it... but at the same time don't have unreal expectations about the relationship either... make sense?

 

[The Joker]

Yea, I know.

I'd just really like to know the chances of us getting together lol.

 

[nursey1972]

just enjoy whatever you do get out of it.... if it happens that is good, if not... well then, something better will come along!!! don't rush into stuff to soon... or else you will end up married and then 11 years down the road asking "what the hell was I thinking?!" (not that I know or anything!... LOL)

 

[pink]

Just take it slow get to know her but don't count on it going anywhere just yet. Keep your options open kwim?

 

[wednesday]

Bloody hell Matyou get through more girls than i change my underwear...no snidey comments Donnie

Seriously though your so young, dont put all ya eggs in one basket....have fun, make friends...if it turns out you like each other more...then go for it.

 

[The Joker]

Haha, wedz.

Yea, I know. But she's hella nice.

Eh, well, I was talking to her before, my friend says it's obvious she likes me.

This was our conversation:

Me: "Hey, I'm sorry for throwing this all at you, you don't deserve that"
Her: "It's okay"
Me: "No, it's not really, I mean you would have been perfectly happy with the other guy, I want you to be happy"
Her: "No I wouldn't have!!"
Me: "??......What are you saying?"
Her: "Idk. I might shutup now!"

Then later I can't remember what she said but she said something and I said

"So I'm guessing you don't like me that way?"

She said

"I don't know, feelings are confusing".

Blargh...

 

[nursey1972]

I agree with her... feelings are confusing... LOL

 

[The Joker]

Lol. I still dunno what to do.

 

[Peter Parka]

My advice... stop getting hung up on a suicidal girl you can only chat to on line and go out and meet some local girls you can actually go out and have fun with.

 

[The Joker]

Different person pete.

This girl lives 10mins from me.

Read the thread before you act like a dick.

 

[motorbyclist]

Read the thread before you act like a dick.

You effectively asked for peoples advice and suggestions, what did you expect?


I say enjoy it for what the relationship is right now, don't take the internet too seriously.

 

[The Joker]

I'm talking about a DIFFERENT GIRL, not the one that live 4hours away for fucks sake.

 

[wednesday]

Different person pete.

This girl lives 10mins from me.

Read the thread before you act like a dick.

Hey now.....no need for that language.
I can assure you that pete is giving you good advice......as for getting mixed up...you do have an awful lot of girl threads:24::24::sarcasm:surrender

 

[The Joker]

He was talking about the girl who lives 4hours away...

 

[wednesday]

He was talking about the girl who lives 4hours away...

I know...but calling him a dick isnt actually very nice hun is it??...

 

[The Joker]

What he said isn't actually very nice either, is it?

 

[Peter Parka]

Jesus dude, it was an honest mistake, no need for the dick comment.