plz i need to talk to somebody about this

[sexy.time]

This weekend i became single. I was dating this girl named ashley and shes from the northwest territories so shes inuit. a cute one at that. anyway i went to a family barbeque or hers. there were 2 other guys there and when everybody was inside it was just me and them. we were kinda havin guy talk and got on the subject of how many woman we had been with. the one guy was like "ive pounded more ass that you have ever seen". when asked i said 18 which was honest. i had to go pick a friend up and when im gone those guys go and tell my girlfriend what i said. she calls me and is like "why would you brag to family about that?" (note:there white so i there not really family)
so she freaks out and i say ok well it was fun while it lasted. and that was it. I called her back and was trying to reason with her but she was beeing really really bitchy towards me so i said "fuck you bitch" and hung up. next thing i know those guys are callin me and threatening me. well i talked them down to leaving me alone.

heres the second part that got my blood racing just now. I seen she was on msn so i said, im sorry for everything. she started saying oh i had a wicked time partying lastnight.
i said really? get layed or something.
she says YES IT WAS HOT
i for some dumb reason asked if it was better than me
and she said yes. (OUCH!) now shes totally a hipocrit for getting mad at me over 18 girls. shes 17, has had a threesome, had a STD and i get the feeling shes been around the block.

do you think i did anything wrong? i just need to get this out cuz im vibrating in my chair with anger, and do you think she was just lying about getting layed to make me angry?

 

[CRZY72004]

who cares if it's over then let it be don't worry about it shit happens and maybe she's not the one for you

 

[Jersey]

she was possibly lying to get you jealous... let me read the top part again...

 

[sundvlfn88]

Dude just don't do anything stupid. By that I mean don't go calling her or face her in person until you are totally calm and over the situation. If you confront her on anything there is no telling what will happen.

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

yes, for starters i think this is a chick you need to stay FAR away from. She sounds like drama from the getgo....17 and already has an STD?! That is just ridiculous. This girl is not worth your time, she is trying to rile you up and start shit. She is way too young.

 

[UncleBacon]

move on and find a new chick....

 

[Peter Parka]

She dosen't sound mature enough to be in a relationship to me, let alone being ready for sex!

 

[Jersey]

upon reading this a second time-- RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN

 

[sexy.time]

THANKYOU everyone. i just told her that shes a hipocrit thru texts, and shes said never text her again or she'll get her "boys" after me. i texted back "lmao ok"
thankyou though, she is immature. and having a STD at 17? yeah that disgusting. she acts mature, but inside shes got a 15 year old mindset.

 

[TheLightedPath]

Get out while you still can.

 

[CRZY72004]

upon reading this a second time-- RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN

:withstupid: dude this is the kind of shit that can get you in trouble. From what you say her family didn't like you in the first place by repeating what you told them you answered a question that's all what happened in you past is just that your past dont sweat the small stuff

 

[sexy.time]

yeah, i can agree. i need to change my mindframe.

rather than being all upset about what im missing now and wishing it didnt happen i should just think "well good luck to the next fuckin guy cuz her and her family are crazy". thanx

 

[sexy.time]

im not vibrating in my chair anymore.

 

[Suzie]

Yep, I agree with the others. Move on... it's over with. And surely she was just trying to get to you when she said that the other guy was better.

 

[Ria]

Sounds like a whole lotta dodgy ppl there, that she's connected to.

Best advice is to stay well away from it all.

If you keep contacting her, then before you know it you'll be hearing from the law by the sound of what they're like, for harrassment or worse, when that's not what you were doing.

Worse still, you cld even get yr head caved in by 'her boys'.

Is someone like that, really worth even the slightest ounce of bothering with?

There's obviously absolutely nothing there to offer you - move on, find a nice girl - they are out there.

Always use a condom too - aids isn't cured yet and you dnt want to be in a possible situation to be riddled with that.

Be careful

 

[SRC]

Rule of thumb ... young people who've had STD's shouldn't be your first choice of partners.

You weren't wrong for breaking up with her, but you could have handled it differently imo. I don't understand the need for people to call each other names, then get upset when the other person retalliates. You expect a reaction when you do it .. why be so suprised whenit happens?

I would just leave her alone. Don't text her, don't call her, don't message her, don't look at her if you see her in the street. Just be the bigger person and ignore her. People like that can get you hurt and in big trouble.

Sneaky girls can get guys into trouble easy peasy .. just remember that.

 

[GraceAbounds]

Rule of thumb ... young people who've had STD's shouldn't be your first choice of partners.

You weren't wrong for breaking up with her, but you could have handled it differently imo. I don't understand the need for people to call each other names, then get upset when the other person retalliates. You expect a reaction when you do it .. why be so suprised whenit happens?

I would just leave her alone. Don't text her, don't call her, don't message her, don't look at her if you see her in the street. Just be the bigger person and ignore her. People like that can get you hurt and in big trouble.

Sneaky girls can get guys into trouble easy peasy .. just remember that.

Ditto.

 

[Tim]

I only have 4 words of advice when it comes to girls like this...



Run! Don't walk. Run!