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I feel cheated by this photographer we used in Michigan.

She is a friend of my friend, who has used her before and I have seen her work. We split her fee for mothers day weekend to get some pictures of the kids and us... fine. No problem for $70

Day before shoot, Michael was having an allergic reaction to something and was having asthma attacks left and right... I gave him 4 treatments and was close to taking him to a hospital. I messaged the photographer that night stating I felt I should cancel and rescheduled due to this fact of my childs health and happiness... it was over 12 hr notice.

She called us that morning saying fine, np... but we still owe her full price. We had signed no contract, just friend discount special for mothers day on her day off in the morning that she had no plans for. This annoyed Bryan and I, my friend also... so we decided to do the shoot real fast, if we are paying for something, I want my moneys worth.

Do the shoot... she's asking me what I want the entire time. Takes no initiative herself to suggest poses, what to do with kids, anything... in fact she doesn't even take many picture during the hour.

Takes over two weeks to get previews of the images... to say whether I like them or if the editing is off from what we asked for.

There was only 6 pictures, three of which were of my kids and myself, the others were of my friends(don't really care or want to see hers... I want to view ones of us....)

she states in the email with the proofs, I need to pay another 50$ minimum for the photographs! I thought that's what we were paying for! I signed her contact right before the shoot, but didn't get a chance to read it due to time and she was late.... I am pissed.

I sent her an email back asking if there were more pictures, and that I was never informed I had to pay more for photos.... I only wanted 4-6 of the kids....

I am so pissed off. The pics she sent aren't even good... she edited them way to fucking much... the one of me and the kids doesn't even look like me at all.:thumbdown:mad:willy_nilly:
 
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Thorny........dealing w/friends and relatives in a business relationship always risky....u have a right to be pissed, this stuff ruins many a relationship
 

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Sorry, that kinda thing is definatly something to be pissed about.

I hope you get something useful out of it.
 

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Thorny........dealing w/friends and relatives in a business relationship always risky....u have a right to be pissed, this stuff ruins many a relationship

She's not my friend... I could care less about her. I am appauled with her professionalism...

When I spent 160$ some dollars on Amara's hospital newborn pics, at least we got pictures included with the sitting fee.... and when I spent the same with a photographer who I work with, she gave me the disc with all the images to print what I wanted.

This girl... I feel like she's ripping us, and other people off.

Sorry, that kinda thing is definatly something to be pissed about.

I hope you get something useful out of it.

Doesn't seem like it... this girl knew going in we were money tight.... I am surpized my friend didn't warn me about having to pay again tp get the damn pictures.
 

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Ahhhh, I totally read that as that she was your friend, too. Sounds like she did a shitty job. I wouldn't pay her another dime and I'd make sure to never use her again. Other than that I'd count it as a loss and make sure she gets a bad review to anybody who'll listen. ;)
 

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I guess she got you if there was something in that contract that suggested you'd have to pay extra to get the photos.

As the others have said - chalk it up to experience and don't use that friend of a friend again. And have a word with your actual friend to see if she was charged extra as Cam suggested.

I've only done toddler pics once (for free) but my friend seemed happy enough. Toddler was between 1-2 years old and for the most part I let the kid wander about to try to take 'candid' shots. Sometimes I'd get mummy or daddy to try to get the kid's attention so that the head/face would be looking in a certain direction but other than that, didn't ask for too much.
 

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Ugh... I am so annoyed and pissed with this.

My friend, she assumed I knew you had to pay extra, and that there was a minimum fee... apparently its normally $140 minimum ordering on top of$ 140 for the sitting fee....This girl is a little conceded of how good she is.... and the area she lives in is backwards in accepting that as normal for studen pricing.... so we are out 70$

My friend said she normally puts the best in the order fee.... so this chick is asking me to spend 50$ on three pictures.... or six if I wanted ones not of my kids... there "might" be more...

So I sent the 'photograher' a email saying we aren't happy with the experience, feel misinformed, and aren't spending more money with her ever.
 

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I would be upset too. I'm sorry you had to go through this.
I would have cancelled and not paid her. If at that point you hadn't signed a contract then it wasn't your fault. AND your poor child, I mean why would she make you pay still if she knew your child was having an allergic reaction? This gal just sounds ridiculous!

I'm sorry you are basically out that $70 and wasted your time.
 

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I know... I think I am more mad at myself for not canceling and not paying.... for not reading the contract when I did sign... for not looking at her 'pro' site....


Good news is we are getting 70-90 bucks coming back when we finsh our fence from our neighbours portion of repairs.
 

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I know... I think I am more mad at myself for not canceling and not paying.... for not reading the contract when I did sign... for not looking at her 'pro' site....


Good news is we are getting 70-90 bucks coming back when we finsh our fence from our neighbours portion of repairs.

We all over look stuff. That photographer should feel bad for making you feel trapped even tho there hadn't been a contract yet.

YAY for making up that money in another way!
 

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No contract = I wouldn't have paid her a dime if I wasn't satisfied. No way... no how.

I signed the contract before she took photos, didn't get a chance to read it.... was my mistake.

I am not required to pay anything, unless we want photos.

She isn't very professional, if she wanted to a) have a longterm client b) make decent money, you'd think she makes sure her clients understand what they are paying for, prior to signing.
 

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I'll hold her down, and you can punch her in the stomach a few times? :jk

Seriously though, that is shitty, and sounds like she has some really sketchy business practices.
 
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