Ok, is she frigging playing?

[The Joker]

I can't ever tell, refer a few threads down for the situation.

Well, today I had a free period, she had one too. She "accidentally" flashed me, and she was telling people not to go in front of her at risk of being flashed. She didn't care one bit if I did

And during that period, they put a whole bunch of pillows on me, she instantly jumped on them, on top of me, and wouldn't move lol. At one point she was sitting on the pillow that was on my face (AWKWARD!)

Anyway, I have a swollen finger, and I was talking to her just then. This was the conversation:

"How's you're jelly bean finger holding up typing?"
"It's fine....coz I'm not typing with it =D"
"Aww, poor baby"
"Kiss it better, hahaha. And when you're finished....my lips kinda hurt too "

She didn't get it at first, and when I EXPLAINED it to her, there wasn't a word of protest and just a LOL.

Then she was like "*name here* Usually goes much further, including tongue and then vagina xD" She was joking lol.

But I just thought it was a bit weird that her and her BFFL sorted things out, then agreed to date in A YEAR?

And it was funny coz I played cricket for school yesterday (where I killed my finger xD) and she was like "I'll miss you" "Will mat miss me?" And I was like, don't go all girlfriend-y on me, I'm not your girlfriend...I mean...boyfriend.

She told me she'd rather have me not force (which I'm assuming meant force her into going out with me...which, Idk HOW I did..) and I just said I was being serious

I'm probably just being paranoid and/or wishful. XD

 

[Mortally]

All I can say is...

What a fucking cocktease.

*reminisces*

Ahh, to be back in school..

 

[The Joker]

What do you mean, you think she is playing?

 

[wednesday]

shes teasing you....

 

[skyblue]

ummmmmm....define 'flash'

 

[The Joker]

Like, she'd turn round to me and WOOMF, I see RIGHT up her dress.

And are you SURE she is?

If so, what should I do?

I think maybe I pay too much attention too her?

 

[dazner]

dude.....I care about you so let me tell you what to do......


She is playing with you thats what you call cock teasing...she's the type of girl who would make out with you let you feel her up then not talk to you for days because she has others on the side who do the same thing. She definately likes you deep down and doesn't mind the convo you bring but doesn't seem likes shes ready to make the "girlfriend" jump.....Most girls are like that....it gets worse when they get older.......Your only chance to get with her will most likely be when your alone away from her friends completely.....then she'll be herself and more able to talk about the whole thing freely without others opinions.....



But don't get hurt over her.......she is a player-cocktease.. :nod:

 

[groundpounder]

well put, daz.

Joke, blow her off. Cockteases HATE that.

OR, the next time she teases you, if the circumstances allow, put your hands on her shoulders or (gently) on the sides of her head and say, "Enough fucking around - it's go time. If it's not go time, stop doing shit like *what she just did*"

I prefer the former not the latter because being subtle is usually the best way, but depending on the girl, either could work.

 

[JosephGabriel]

I think she sounds like a bit of a cocktease. She's probably incredibly insecure and has some MAJOR issues and needs people to fawn over her and give her attention to make her feel good about herself.

Don't give her any attention whatsoever. I'm not saying ignore her. But unless she starts the conversation or says hi to you first, then don't do anything. Make her work for your attention.

If you really want to get her then you should make her work to get you rather than the other way round. If she flashes you, act like you're not bothered, if she asks you to go out or meet at a party or whatever, say you'll try but you're not sure. I know it's sooooo hard to play hard to get if you really like someone but that's the only way with a girl like her.

If lots of guys are into her and she's getting all their attention then the only way you can be different and stand out is by not giving her attention.

Be warned though, girls like that usually have lots of issues and she'd probably be hard work. Let me know how it goes.

 

[wasred69]

I would have to ask how well you know this girl because she could either like you or be wat the rest of the posters say , cock tease or has friends with benefits.

 

[The Joker]

I think she DOES it coz I get freaked out by it.

Today I was extremely tired and I was laying down next to her. She sat on me T_T

She was telling me to sleep on her and stuff.

I took a swing at one of my friends today, she was like, hugging me so much and stuff lol.