When my children went through school my wife was very active as an unpaid volunteer. There were several stay at home moms who were the core of the group of volunteers. They remain friends although not always close and have a shared kinship since their children are the same age and their children grew up together. One of the young men who went through school with my son was killed in an accident on I-10 in Florida yesterday. He and my son were not best friends or anything but my wife was totally shook up thinking how easy it could happen to any of us.