Men!!

[Veronica]

Why can men be mad about something but not want to share it and hold a grudge for 3 fucking days? i have done NOTHING wrong, but joe is mad at me for something I asked him. He is ignoring me, coming home with an attitude and wont even put his arm around me in bed. I wrote him an email, but he wont respond to it... ITS KILLING ME!!


MEN CAN BE SO STUPID! I think they have PMS or something, but it is really pissing me off and believe me, noone likes a pissed off veronica

 

[White2000GT]

Yes, it is true. Men do have PMS. It's not a monthly cycle persay, but we do have it.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Sounds all too familiar! My husband is the same way. He will be upset with me about something but wont ever tell me until one day he explodes because he had been holding it in for so long. But that is one thing that we have been discussing the past week. About him being more open to me and telling me when something is wrong instead of him expecting me to read his mind.

 

[UncleBacon]

funny thing is it always seems to be the opposite for men....women expecting us to read their minds and never say what's wrong

 

[Veronica]

well, i guess me and joe has reversed roles.. He is the chick in the relationship and I am the male,..

 

[AUDRAA]

Im the same as you V if Im pissed youre gonna know it, I hate the silent treatment grrrr:mad

 

[UncleBacon]

haha well

 

[taylor90]

Yeah guys arnt good at talking abuot whats making them mad. for me its usually cuz its something really dumb and have no real reason to be pissed.

 

[Jersey]

the silent treatment is the worse... i'm the say as V and Audra, if i'm mad about something you and half the town are gonna hear it!

 

[White2000GT]

Hell hath no fury like a woman who's mad at her old man.

 

[bass_man1989]

well, i guess me and joe has reversed roles.. He is the chick in the relationship and I am the male,..

Tell him that if you REALLY want to piss him off.

 

[Peter Parka]

If I have a problem I like to get it all out. I really hate it when my missus gets the arse ache with me, gives me the silent treatment and then if I ask whats wrong she says "nothing!"

 

[Sam]

" well, i guess me and joe has reversed roles.. He is the chick in the relationship and I am the male,.. "

lolz .. Veronica well said .. alas u realised ...

Ignore his weird behaviour for few days I am sure he will cool down .. if u pay more attention towards it he will make u more uncomfy .. so better u follow your regular routine .. shud be fine.

 

[Veronica]

thanks sam.

He started acting alittle better last night, but he still isnt 100 percent my husband yet... I still have no freaking idea what crawled up his ass.

 

[Reaver]

and it's ok when a woman does the same thing? I think I can speak for the men here when I say we fell the same way when women hold grudges. except women can hold them longer than men most of the time. I had an ex-girlfriend who would bring up some trivial arguement bullshit 4-5 months after it happened. And I knew everytime the conversation went down that road, I could expect to listen to her bitch and moan while all I would say was "yeah, i'm sorry." or "honey , that was months ago, can we forget it? I said I was sorry." She would get really pissed while I was trying to let sleeping dogs lie, and then I could expect the silent treatment for a few days. Needless to say, it's one of the reasons i broke up with her.

then if I ask whats wrong she says "nothing!"

God, that is the most annoying thing in the world. We want to know what we did wrong, and you expect us to read minds. The reason we ask is because we don't remember, we don't ask just to fuck with you. We want to make it better and you get all pissy. "you should know what you did." yeah, but obviously I don't so why can't we talk it through?

PS: to all the ladies of this forum: the arguement we had was brought on by me, AND I never got overly mad with her. We argued for like, 5 minutes and it was over. so please do not post saying "maybe she thought you blew it out of proprtion" or "maybe she thought you where taking things too seriously". I apologized and told her I was sorry i argued over something so dumb and never brought it up again. She, on the other hand, couldn't seem to forget a 5 minute arguement.

psshhh. Women.

 

[andcuriouser]

I always get mad at Matt for stupid things. Like, there are certain things he can say to me that, in one situation, are completely acceptable, but in another situation, will piss me off for eons. And these situations aren't always readily distinguishable.

Matt's very good at the silent treatment, though. Everything I say is met with a grunt or silence. And then he just gives me some sort of withering look when I point out, "We are not apes, Matthew. We are capable of speech."

 

[Maulds]

How he could look into V's eyes and hold any grudge is beyond me.