I think i get what your are trying to say: You are a cute girl who has found the love of her life but is annoyed by men coming at your door, trying to get your ass. You find it tempting to give in but on the other hand, because you get bored sometimes when your man is not around, you are afraid that you might give in someday and betray him.
First of all, when your man is not around, try to find yourself a hobby or a passion or a job. Anything that will make your mind and hands busy so that you won't feel so lonely and needy of other man.
Second, demand respect from all those guys who are after you. You are not available and should give them signs that you are not interested.
Third: 'What do you do', was that question to ask us how to get rid of those guys or if you should give in and have fun with them ?
If you plan to have fun with them, might as well not get married cause you are not ready for serious commitment.
