lost between love

[spunkymaori]

yr recently divorced and gees men are diving at my door. and now im engaged ......i feel i need them but its all in my mind...........im strong beautiful and wild..........men cant handle that ..........what do i do

 

[RedStangGT2000]

Turn lesbo and i will bring the camera

 

[UncleBacon]

:needpics

 

[Rusteh]

:agree :laughing :laughing

 

[Mrs Behavin]

yr recently divorced and gees men are diving at my door. and now im engaged ......i feel i need them but its all in my mind...........im strong beautiful and wild..........men cant handle that ..........what do i do

:dunno shit if I know :dunno

 

[Mini Vin]

masterbation isn't a bad idea either..everyone is doing it these days!!

 

[Sim]

First off, you have to realize that you don't NEED a man in your life to complete who you are. A man can accentuate the true you, but cannot make you more of who you are. That make sense? lol

Second, you just got out of a relationship. Don't feel the need to go rushing into anything. Just sit tight for a while and enjoy yourself. You don't have to have strings attached in order to live life...so don't be tied down until you're ready again.

Third, I can give advice all day long, but this is ultimately up to you. You obviously aren't ready, if you're asking us on a forum what to do, so that's why you have me responding.

Finally...keep smiling through it all and have fun!

yr recently divorced and gees men are diving at my door. and now im engaged ......i feel i need them but its all in my mind...........im strong beautiful and wild..........men cant handle that ..........what do i do

 

[Veronica]

First off, you have to realize that you don't NEED a man in your life to complete who you are. A man can accentuate the true you, but cannot make you more of who you are. That make sense? lol

I agree with this completely!!

You may just want to wait before you "commit" to a man.

 

[Sim]

I only have one question...

Where the heck were all the people with good advice eleven years ago?? lol

Ok...in all honesty, I was with my ex because...because...um...crap. I don't even know what it was that drew me in. I think I felt too needy and he fulfilled some of that...somehow. *shrugs* But then again...I was fresh out of a relationship and settled. There's a moral to this story: DON'T SETTLE!

*goes back off, muttering to self*

 

[Veronica]

The only regret I have in life was to get out more and have a good time. I dont regret my husband or kids, I love them all so very much and would never give them up.. but all threw highschool I was with someone and never got out to do my own thing.. Now I have more freedom. I had my FIRST EVER vacation w/out hubby and kids and it was great. It was a trip w/ just the girls (and a gay guy) and it was so fun. I didnt have to worry about impressing a guy, ect. It was liberating I guess you can say.. I was so happy that joe was cool w/ me going. Anyways, I say be by yourself for a while, then when you find mr right, go for it.. but LOOK HARD for mr right, because i am sure you done want to be divorced again.

 

[Kungfu]

Follow your heart, it will guide you where you should be

 

[Rusteh]

Re: RE: lost between love

Follow your heart, it will guide you where you should be

just don't let your heart get confused and come into my bedroom....i'm nothing but trouble :rock :cool

 

[Veronica]

Just read rusteh's avatar and that will answer it all for ya!

 

[spunkymaori]

Re: RE: lost between love

Follow your heart, it will guide you where you should be

so when it beats fast i run
is that how it goes

 

[spunkymaori]

Re: RE: lost between love

Turn lesbo and i will bring the camera

if i did id get a camera too

 

[spunkymaori]

Re: RE: lost between love

Follow your heart, it will guide you where you should be

just don't let your heart get confused and come into my bedroom....i'm nothing but trouble :rock :cool

ok can i turn off the lights.........and wear a big smile

 

[spunkymaori]

Re: RE: lost between love

The only regret I have in life was to get out more and have a good time. I dont regret my husband or kids, I love them all so very much and would never give them up.. but all threw highschool I was with someone and never got out to do my own thing.. Now I have more freedom. I had my FIRST EVER vacation w/out hubby and kids and it was great. It was a trip w/ just the girls (and a gay guy) and it was so fun. I didnt have to worry about impressing a guy, ect. It was liberating I guess you can say.. I was so happy that joe was cool w/ me going. Anyways, I say be by yourself for a while, then when you find mr right, go for it.. but LOOK HARD for mr right, because i am sure you done want to be divorced again.

thanks for your advice will think on it

 

[Sim]

I don't see that you're really all that serious about your relationship. You should let him go so that you stop wasting his time. Let him go be with someone who isn't going to be ignored for virtual world acquaintances.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Re: RE: lost between love

I only have one question...

Where the heck were all the people with good advice eleven years ago?? lol

Ok...in all honesty, I was with my ex because...because...um...crap. I don't even know what it was that drew me in. I think I felt too needy and he fulfilled some of that...somehow. *shrugs* But then again...I was fresh out of a relationship and settled. There's a moral to this story: DON'T SETTLE!

*goes back off, muttering to self*

You weren't 11 years older back then? :dunno

 

[OUZBnd]

you sure you're not lost between dating sites?