i have somethin that is bothering me

last night when i was working all i kept hearing all last night that iam really miserable when i am usually working. even though lat night i was in a good mood when i was cooking and doing other things. i have you try to be nice to people and they stab you in the back. i have woked in this place for about seven years i am almost ready to quit working there. i somewhat enjoy what i do but not lately you help other poeple all the time but when you need help no one helps you in return. I seems no matter what you do you can't please anyone. What would any of you do in this situation?
 
Nothing is what I would do.

You will eventually learn that you will never please anyone, be a good person and treat people good and at least you can live with yourself.

That's the best you can do.

:homo:
Only thing I would change is that you can't please all of the people all of the time. There's always gonna be some asshole u can't please. U can count on it.

But why is it that you say you hear people say you're really miserable when you are working? Is this true? Or are they exaggerating? What's your general attitude been like?

If you love your work, that's a good thing as that's half the battle won but on the other hand if you're feeling stressed out with a bunch of negative vibes that's not too good. What has your attitude been like and is there any reason that others would have a reason to be cross with you?
 
Enjoying what you do is great, but if the people you have to work with are disrespectful to you, then I don't think it's worth it. If the atmosphere is one where everyone is teasing each other, then you'll just have to become thick-skinned and take the jokes, as well as give them out. If they are truly picking on you, you could go to management to get them to stop, but it sounds like your co-workers may retaliate for that. After 7 years at the same job, it may be that you've done all you can do at that location, and it's time to move on.
 
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