friends piss me off sometimes

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this may be a semi-long post, but here goes:

a buddy of mine has been dating this chick for a few months now while hes getting divorced from his ex-wife. he told me that him and his wife are over. well over the last weekend, apparently, his ex-wife was staying at his house (he lives with his mom btw). well he told me he took a shower and while he was in the shower, his ex-wife got ahold of some paper with phone numbers on it (mine is on it apparently) that has his currents girlfriends number on it but no names besides the numbers. apparently they argue about it and she breaks his cell phone. so he tells me to lie to his ex-wife and wants me to tell her that hes not dating his current girlfriend and that hes "dating" some other girl. so i said ok whatever. well today i get a call from his ex-wife and shes asking me questions about his current girlfriend and tells me that hes a drunk (which i will admit he does drink alot) and that hes abusive and that she has no where to live and whatever else. i wasnt trying to pay much attention to her since i was driving. i proceed to tell her i cant help her out because i dont know anything and i also told her i try not to get too involved in other peoples lives (which is true). she was also trying to get me to tell her if he was dating his current girlfriend and again i told her i dont know. THEN shes says that i introduced them (which i did not). i told her i probably did but i wasnt sure and that i couldnt help her out. well about 30 minutes later, my friend calls me back and asked what did i tell his ex-wife (he sounded pissed at me). i told him basically that i wasnt trying to get involved because its not business. i also told him i was pissed that she had called me. he said he couldnt help it because she got ahold of his phone and the phone numbers which in all actuality it was his fault he left it out in the first place. he then tells me to tell her that if she calls again for me to tell her to not call me again.

im at the point where i dont even wanna hang out with him any more because of this shit because he has dragged me into his own personal delimas with his ex-wife and current girlfriend. i got too much other shit going on right now and i dont need this (which is what i also told his ex-wife on the phone when she called me). i really hate when friends do this shit...
 
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i used to have friends that would bring me in the middle of all their drama and it was really stressfull and i hated it. especially if you are friends with both the people. so i know that shit really sucks. i know it would suck for it to go that far but if you have to just change you phone number or block her calls. but i hope it blows over for ya... :D
 

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well according to him, his ex-wife has someone watching every move he makes. she knows what i look like and what i drive and that is something i dont like. now if she knows where i live, thats a HUGE problem. ive told him to just got call the cops on her but he said she will make it look like he did abusive stuff to her because they have a no contact order on each other.
 

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A true friend would have never put you in such a position where he'd ask you to lie for him. That's just bullshit.

As for their situation...unless she can prove that something occurred, then there's usually no basis for an actual case. I had this one instance where I had not only witnesses, but plenty of bruises to prove it, as well. You can usually tell which ones are full of it, and which women have truly been beaten, as they're the LAST ones to make a report.

You CAN get her number blocked if you contact your cell service provider and explain to them that the woman is on borderline harassment, and that you would prefer her number be blocked from being able to contact you, rather than start a lawsuit against her...which, btw, is perfectly legal to do if you feel the need to be really bitchy about it.

I'm sorry for your situation, man. If there's anything we can do to help, just name it...well, outside of drop-kicking bitch's ass...ok, so I might throw that one in for free... *smiles*
 

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Re: RE: friends piss me off sometimes

ROFLMAO!! I was thinking the SAME thing...

Ms_Naive said:
On a lighter note........sounds like her and redstangs ex would be "GREAT" friends
 
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