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HottyToddyChick

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Matt and I got our marriage license today and the lady asked if we were related. I said no, then laughed and said, God I hope not. Turns out, in the state of Maryland, you can legally marry your first cousin!

What are the marriage rules between family in your state/country?
 
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Sneakiecat

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Both Florida and Virginia allow cousin marriages. I find it funny that if we had gotten married in FL, it would have been $93.50 for the license but it only cost us $30 in VA.
 

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i don't think you can in louisiana. i read the incest laws not too long ago because the sex offender down the street's flyer read incest...
 

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That's what I"m saying, Tim! We both came up from MS, and here we are cracking jokes about Arkansas and Alabama, and lo and behold... the Yanks that allow it too!
 

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UK Laws

[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Fobidden Degrees of Relationship
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Throughout the United Kingdom and the British Crown dependencies of Guernsey, Jersey and the Isle of Man, the law forbids certain blood relatives, step-relatives and relatives-in-law from getting married. These restrictions are officially know as forbidden degrees of relationship. The prohibitions apply to illegitimate as well as legitimate relationships. There are exceptions relating to certain step-relatives and relatives-in-law, which are explained later in this article.

A man may not marry his:

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[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother (also step-mother, former step-mother, mother-in-law, former mother-in-law, adoptive mother or former adoptive mother) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Daughter (also step-daughter, former step-daughter, daughter-in-law, former daughter-in-law, adoptive daughter or former adoptive daughter) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Sister (also half-sister) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father's mother (grandmother) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother's mother (grandmother) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father's father's former wife (step-grandmother) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother's father's former wife (step-grandmother) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Son's daughter (granddaughter) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Daughter's daughter (granddaughter) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Wife's son's daughter (step-granddaughter) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Wife's daughter's daughter (step-granddaughter) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Son's son's wife (grandson's wife) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Daughter's son's wife (grandson's wife) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father's sister (aunt) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother's sister (aunt) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Brother's daughter (niece) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Sister's daughter (niece)

A woman may not marry her:

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[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father (also step-father, former step-father, father-in-law, former father-in-law, adoptive father or former adoptive father) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Son (also step-son, former step-son, son-in-law, former son-in-law, adoptive son or former adoptive son) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Brother (also half-brother or step-brother) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father's father (grandfather) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother's father (grandfather) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother's mother's former husband (step-grandfather) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father's mother's former husband (step-grandfather) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Son's son (grandson) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Daughter's son (grandson) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Husband's daughter's son (step grandson) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Husband's son's son (step grandson) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Son's daughter's husband (granddaughter's husband) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Daughter's daughter's husband (granddaughter's husband) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Father's brother (uncle) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Mother's brother (uncle) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Brother's son (nephew) [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Sister's son (nephew)

In Scotland, a man may not marry his great-grandmother or great-granddaughter and a woman may not marry her great-grandfather or great-grandson.

[/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Other Prohibitions[/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]
You cannot get married in the UK or the British Crown dependencies of Guernsey, Jersey and the Isle of Man if either of you are under the age of 16. Please read our article on minimum age and parental consent for details of the parental consent requirements.

You must both also be free to marry, that is, not already married and you must also be of different sex at birth. This applies even if one of you has undergone gender modification surgery.

In England, Scotland and Wales (not Northern Ireland, Isle of Man, Guernsey and Jersey) the Marriage Act, 1986, allows for certain step-relatives and relatives-in-law to marry.

Step-Relatives
Step-relatives may marry provided they are at least 21 years of age. The younger of the couple must at no time before the age of 18 have lived in the same household as the older person. Neither must they have been treated as a child of the older person's family.

Relatives-in-Law
Although a man may marry his sister-in-law and a woman may marry her brother-in-law, other relatives-in-law may marry provided they are at least 21 years of age and the family members involved in creating the in-law relationship are both dead. For example, if a man wishes to marry his daughter-in-law, both his son and his son's mother must be dead. In England and Wales, marriages under this Act are not permitted with the calling of banns but can take place in a church on the authority of a superintendent registrar's certificate without licence.

[/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]Marriage of Cousins[/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=arial,helvetica][SIZE=-1]
Despite the long list of degrees of forbidden relationship, you can marry a cousin (courtesy of Henry VIII who changed the law to marry his cousin!). However, it would be sensible for you both to consult your GP to ensure that there are no factors in your family's health records that would make your decision to have children inadvisable on medical grounds.
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Im not allowed to marry my 1st or 1st cousin once removed

aww shucks!!

:p

In my mind that is not normal. so i dont even need a law that tells me that I cant
 

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I didn't interpret it that way, though you may be right. After reading Peter's, I think it goes back to the in-laws thing.

And yeah, it doesn't seem right in my mind either. That's just weird, IMO, although seeing all the provisions for adopted/adoptive family members, I could see how if I was adopted (say at 15 or 16) by a family who just happened to be this really hot guy at my school's aunt and uncle and he and I kinda had a thing... I don't know. That's a stretch, I think.
 

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According to CousinCouples.com :24: here is a map of states that allow marriage to first cousins...

Notice all the green is in the southern states :24:

State laws and cousin marriage - CousinCouples.com

After a quick count, it's actually even between southern and northern. And I was generous. I don't count VA as 'southern' so I went by who was what during the Civil War.
 
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