Do you prefer to marry a virgin?

[Starmix]

Do you prefer to marry a virgin? There are foreigners who do not prefer to marry a virgin. There are 'also
people in my country who prefer to marry a virgin. In the past, parents never allow their sons to marry
ladies not anymore virgins. They think they are sinners or they are not worth trusting after marriage.
I cannot fathom their reasons.

The answer is yours.

 

[Stardom22]

Nowadays it's very hard to find a Virgin in my country. Most girls are not

 

[AstriaPorta]

This days most people marry much older not many people marry under 30 so be a virgin either something wrong with you or too much into religion .... anyway why the fuss about someone been a virgin there is more change that person will cheat after

 

[Kakapo Dundee]

I'm 60, and already married.....good luck with that.

 

[arunima]

I am happily married for twenty three years and the question is not valid anymore. It's a personal choice and no judgement can be made. But societal norms are changing everywhere.

 

[Blessed19]

There is absolutely no reason for me to prefer marrying a virgin for wife but life is giving me someone that is a virgin. The lady I am going out with and considering to have as a wife is a virgin even though I don't mind marrying someone that is not as I myself is also not a virgin. A virgin that is going give you a hell lot of problems in your marriage is not worth it than one who is not but give you peace of mind.

 

[arunima]

Marriage is all about trust, understanding and respect. Everyone has a past and the past should not matter if things are going well in your present.

 

[Stardom22]

Marriage is all about trust, understanding and respect. Everyone has a past and the past should not matter if things are going well in your present.

Your absolutely very right my friend on that. Trust in the marriage is very crucial

 

[Starmix]

Nowadays it's very hard to find a Virgin in my country. Most girls are not

Also in my county in general and in the city where I live in particular young girls are not anymore virgins. They're carried by their emotions without thinking.

 

[Starmix]

This days most people marry much older not many people marry under 30 so be a virgin either something wrong with you or too much into religion .... anyway why the fuss about someone been a virgin there is more change that person will cheat after

It seems young people this time care less about their dignities. All they want is satisfaction.

 

[Starmix]

I am happily married for twenty three years and the question is not valid anymore. It's a personal choice and no judgement can be made. But societal norms are changing everywhere.

That's right we're not born yesterday and technology exploits the young generation in the 21st century. Culture also matters.

 

[Starmix]

There is absolutely no reason for me to prefer marrying a virgin for wife but life is giving me someone that is a virgin. The lady I am going out with and considering to have as a wife is a virgin even though I don't mind marrying someone that is not as I myself is also not a virgin. A virgin that is going give you a hell lot of problems in your marriage is not worth it than one who is not but give you peace of mind.

I appreciated much your contention about the issue of marrying someone virgin or not. What matters most is love.

 

[Starmix]

Marriage is all about trust, understanding and respect. Everyone has a past and the past should not matter if things are going well in your present.

I agree with your statement that marriage is built on trust and love. The past must be buried and to face a new and promising tomorrow.

 

[arunima]

That's right we're not born yesterday and technology exploits the young generation in the 21st century. Culture also matters.

I agree there. Times have changed and so has the demands of lives. Cultures are alsi evolving and adapting to new demands. Change is the only constant in this world and we can not complaint about it.

 

[arunima]

I agree with your statement that marriage is built on trust and love. The past must be buried and to face a new and promising tomorrow.

When starting a relationship, one should get all the doubts clarified before getting into serious relationship. It is a personal preference and choice. If you want a virgin and you feel that it might impact your relationship in long run, please get it sorted out in the initial stages of relationship. Don't ruin a relationship over such issues later.

 

[arunima]

Your absolutely very right my friend on that. Trust in the marriage is very crucial

Yes, trust and respect for each other. You don't have secrets with each other before starting a serious and committed relationship.

 

[astutimeliana723]

Actually there is no obligation to marry a virgin. But it would be better if both were single. Likewise if the widower with the widow. So that it is equal so that it is hoped that there will be no significant problems in the future.

 

[ben2go]

Do you prefer to marry a virgin? There are foreigners who do not prefer to marry a virgin. There are 'also
people in my country who prefer to marry a virgin. In the past, parents never allow their sons to marry
ladies not anymore virgins. They think they are sinners or they are not worth trusting after marriage.
I cannot fathom their reasons.

The answer is yours.

I am a freak! I had sex way to young and with very wild women. I have gotten use to a lot of weird, freaky, kinky stuff. I need a lady that knows what she likes, enjoys sexual experimentation, and has no inhibitions when in a safe loving relationship. I don't see a fresh face virgin being able to let go and really get wild. I maybe mistaken.

 

[Salt]

Million dollar question is how will you know if a person is a virgin? No one will allow you to go for a test that can testify if the person is a virgin or not

 

[Starmix]

I agree there. Times have changed and so has the demands of lives. Cultures are alsi evolving and adapting to new demands. Change is the only constant in this world and we can not complaint about it.

I agree with your contention, in fact, I posted a title like this in ML because of the issue of virginity. My niece is a victim.