Do you Go Through Your Spouses Phone Details?

[kat74]

When one spouse is doubting the other, they can do a lot of things including spaying and snooping around his/her phone.

Are you a snooper or do you believe that what you don't know wont hurt you.

 

[Josie]

Neither. I don't snoop.. I don't have reason to snoop and I never will. I've learned a lot about other people over my lifetime and I know I chose the right person for me. I know I have nothing to worry about and even if I did.. I won't disrespect him in turn. Everyone deserves privacy.. innocent until proven guilty and all that.

 

[ReadmeByAmy]

Nope! I don't snoop through my spouse phone details either his personal laptop computer. i do trust my husband and I know he is also the same for me. In a relationship we should respect each other privacy and even I am his wife I should not doubt something wrong in my mind about him not because I do not want to be hurt but because I respect him a lot as a person..

 

[jazzalazz]

My ex boyfriend used to go through my messages! I never did anything, but his snooping helped put an end to the relationship. We were fine, except he could not get over his past girlfriends to trust in me.

 

[One Direction]

My girl used to rummage through my phone and look at my messages behind my back. She discovered a few messages that were made between me and another girl which prompted for our breakup at the time. Now, she no longer looks into my phone. I don't know if she trusts me or not but I no longer am worried that she would find anything. I installed an app that hides certain text messages. Lol.

 

[Boomerang]

Neither one of us has anything to hide. We use our phones almost interchangeably.I wouldn't say I snoop, but I typically know who he is texting and he usually knows who I am texting.

 

[ally79]

When one spouse is doubting the other, they can do a lot of things including spaying and snooping around his/her phone.

Are you a snooper or do you believe that what you don't know wont hurt you.

You spayed your spouse?!? Man, that is harsh! No, I don't snoop in my spouses phone, but we don't hide anything from each other. We have been together since we were 14 and have an open marriage.

 

[Makeshifter]

If you're snooping in your spouse's personal stuff, then there is a very serious trust issue happening here on your part. Usually, this is the symptom of deep insecurity and a lack of open communication.

However, if you find that you're compulsively spaying your spouse, you might want to set yourself up with a really good defense lawyer. I've learned first hand that people really seem to hate it when you remove their reproductive organs without their consent. Them's the breaks.

 

[brezzy]

My girl used to rummage through my phone and look at my messages behind my back. She discovered a few messages that were made between me and another girl which prompted for our breakup at the time. Now, she no longer looks into my phone. I don't know if she trusts me or not but I no longer am worried that she would find anything. I installed an app that hides certain text messages. Lol.

This kind of situation just prove why some girls or boys just can not stop snooping their partner's phone.

I think it really depends on who are you with. If your partner gives you this feeling of security, I think you won't bother to check anything. But I understand why some can not just sit there and leave checking her or his partner private things like handy and if you feel this way, this is actually a sign of distrust which clearly says you are with a wrong person. Isn't it good when you are with someone who give you this feeling of no worries and just peace of mind, easy and happy?

 

[akasha24]

Honestly, I do think about it, I think about what I would find if I went through his phone etc. I just always ask myself: would I like it if he went through mine? Obviously, the answer is no. I think privacy is important even if you are in a committed relationship. Having privacy doesn't necessarily mean hiding something or lying, it just means that you have a life of your own. I think it's rude and disrespectful to go through someone's phone and personal things. If however, I would suspect that my man is cheating on me, then I would probably go through his phone if I can and if not I would definitely confront him.

 

[Dreek Lass]

I have never had a serious relationship. I am twenty-three-years-old now and I have yet to have a serious relationship, and or fall in love. I can only speak on my experience so far, and I can honestly say that I have never cared about anyone enough to go through their phone or anything like that. I have never been in love though, so maybe if or when I do, I will go crazy like everybody else that falls in love lol.

More is at stake when you are in love, so I suppose you would tend to snoop more. I can't say whether I would or not.

 

[drkn335]

I would never do that because it's just plain rude- even if they are your spouse their phone is their private property and you wouldn't like it if someone did that to you even if you don't have anything to hide. I just don't think that it is right to do something like that. It's really disrespectful. If you are suspicious just confront them, don't snoop, because then you just look back.

 

[Joe the meek]

If you have to believe "what you don't know won't hurt you" in a relationship, I think it's time to either take a hard look at the relationship or yourself.

 

[KC Evans]

I am definitely a snooper from time to time. It's not an every day thing but I do it. It has nothing to do with my security level because I am very aware of myself. This world is crazy. I trust him but I don't trust others. A whore will be a whore and dog will be a dog. I like to make sure that I am not devoting myself to a dog. So there's nothing wrong with reassuring myself from time to time. He also has access to my electronic devices. It works for both of us.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

I have never been insecure in romantic relationships. It is that insecurity that makes people to go about snooping on their partner's phones. You might even be spying and you see something you misunderstand and end up creating problems in your relationship.