Do you give in to lust if there's an opportunity?

[One Direction]

I often find myself in different situations wherein I'm tempted by some ladies. There are a lot of times wherein lust presents itself and it becomes so hard to control because there are a lot of opportunities. Now, I have a girl that I've been with for 4 years now. But I think that the fire burned down. My mind tells me that the fire will burn again if i go out with other women. Sheesh. Me and my big dumb brain. It makes it so hard to resist.

Do you give in to lust when an opportunity presents itself? If not, how do you prevent lust from taking over?

 

[Joe the meek]

Me and my big dumb brain. It makes it so hard to resist.

Depending on your age, it could be your dumb dick.

 

[Denis Hard]

I definitely can't give in. There's nothing new I'm going to get from someone else that I won't get from the person I am with. Most young men might give in to lust, but hell, all women have the same stuff.

 

[The Man]

If you love her don't cheat ...break it off first then play the field.
If you don't love her. then at least do it out of respect to her.

 

[BleedingBull]

No I can abstain, I do myself just fine, its better then regret. Why risk a bond for a five min lay.

 

[One Direction]

Depending on your age, it could be your dumb dick.

Lol. That was funny. But it really is dumb. I'm an idiot. I wasn't like this before. But I don't know, it's like I want to get laid every time. It sucks.

No I can abstain, I do myself just fine, its better then regret. Why risk a bond for a five min lay.

Thanks for the tip man. I won't forget it. I do hope that I would be as strong as you guys here.

 

[The Man]

When the right one comes along..you really wont want anyone else.

 

[drkn335]

Absolutely not, whether or not you are in a relationship lust is just bad. Everyone gets these feelings yet millions of people don't act on it. To act on it would be selfish if you are with another person, and well just downright slutty if you're not. Don't act like an animal.... humans are supposed to have more morals and realise that it's not okay to have sexual contact with someone they are not in a relationship, or know that it's not okay to cheat.

 

[TABL]

Nope. Never. I'm married- I can't just go off and play with everyone I want to!
Even if I was just dating, I wouldn't do it. I have been cheated on. it hurts.
I agree with the person who said don't cheat, break it off with her first. Be real to her.

 

[porterjack]

i have the sexual morals of a junk yard dog

if it breathes i am interested

 

[ReadmeByAmy]

I will not definitely do that even if there is an opportunity.. I value and give importance to our happy married life..And God is always at the center of our relationship so cheating is a big "NO"...It is immoral and not a good example to other people..

 

[Josie]

I give into lust almost every day lol. Outside of my relationship though, no. I don't feel lust for anyone else.. my marriage is completely fulfilling in every way. I chose well. Even if it does hit me at some point in my life.. I'm mature enough to know it's nothing I can't get at home, it's selfish and completely not worth it. Not to mention, I respect who I'm with.. it's not even possible for me to hurt him.

Not that I would even entertain the idea. I'd likely just run home and take it out on my husband

 

[mlacombe88]

It seems you have three options. 1. Suggest an open relationship. She might be feeling the same way as you. This allows you to experiment sexually with others while still keeping your relationship. Remember...she gets to do it as well. This is not a good idea for most couples. 2. Cheat. I don't think this is a good idea either. 3. Find a way to spice up your sexual life with her. Everyone gets bored! Try something new.

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[Joe the meek]

When the right one comes along..you really wont want anyone else.

From my experiences, having the "right one come along" is only one part of the equation. Fact is, if you're not comfortable with the person you've become, no other person is going to fix YOU.

I've ruined a decent amount of relationships with some great women who could of been "the one", just that I wasn't ready.

I have absolutely no doubt that if I would of married the first woman I fell madly in love with, we'd be divorced by now.

 

[SS42A]

Although there's the temptation that I might give in to lust, in the end I resist the said temptation because I may regret my acts later. Besides, it is highly immoral and unethical for someone to give in to lust, especially if you are married. It could lead to sanctions and dire consequences which will ruin your life forever.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

Sincerely, if a woman that is my spec offers me some slutty advances, there is every tendency that I would fall. And that is unfair to my partner. How do I avoid that? I don't get to relate with women to the point of entertaining sluttiness from them. I have never cheated on my woman for two years now.

 

[Nomad]

No, I don't. I am at a age where I understand why you should not give into lust and why self control is important/