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1) A girl who is exclusively after a free meal or an expensive gift. She actively seeks out dates with well-off men who will wine and dine her at upscale restaurants. She is usually physically attractive enough to make the man fall for her feminine wiles. She will rarely have sex with these men, until they spend a certain number of dollars on her. Nobody knows exactly what that number is, so the man keeps spending and spending, while the dinner whore keeps living it up.

2) A dinner whore is a complement to a dinner john. A dinner whore trades a dinner, which is paid for by a poor or unattractive person, with the privilege of being seen in public with them. Being seen in public with an attractive woman (or man) raises a man's (or woman's) SMV. What men who think they can buy the dinner whore's attentions beyond the dinner, or the unfortunate poor and/or unattractive men (or women), don't seem to realize is that it's an even trade.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=dinner+whore

I have met one such woman when I visited Tokyo,Japan.

I wish to know your experiences.
 
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When I was single there were guys there were guys that wanted to take me out...so when I got hungry I would give them a call lol. Hey a girls gotta eat! And I wasn't looking for any kind of relationship at the time, so I just had my fun and wouldn't call them back. And of course, I've never had a one night stand and most of them never got a phone call anyway after dinner.
 

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I was totally a dinner whore when i was dating. I figure, free food, good company, why not? I would never *pretend* to be into guys just to get the dinner date, but i would always accept on the terms that we were "just getting to know each other" or something. I see nothing wrong with that.
 

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ok one Valentine's day...a week before me and matt got together actually...i had this friend that REALLY liked me. He knew I didn't have feelings for him, but when I asked him what he had planned for Vday he offered to take me out. I was sad that I didn't have a BF and didn't want to spend the day alone, so I accepted. I met him at his house and we went to eat someplace nice and then he busted out the gifts...a card that was EXTREMELY mushy (yuck!) and a gold necklace (double yuck bc i hate yellow gold). This would have been really sweet had i liked the guy, but he was really pushing it. I still didn't give in, and he offered to take me shopping the next day at the mall to buy me some clothes...I totally would have gone...but i skipped out and went and smoked pot at matts house instead. He claims matt "stole his woman" but i was never his in the first place! lol. He was a total creep, and would actually call me crying after that. weirdo.
 

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haha when i worked at the strip club there'd always be this asian man that was about 50 who would come in..didnt speak a WORD of english..and he'd always ask for Raven (that was my name there). He'd always have to buy a bottle of champagne or wine to get me to sit down with him, and after that i would just order shot after shot, and when i went to get the drinks at the bar id ask for waterbacks, so I'd get to keep the $10 per each shot. That man basically paid for my car stereo lol. (PS- no i wasnt a dancer just a waitress)
 

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Having been to a foreign country, I felt like talking to a native woman.

I talked with her for some time. I paid for food and drinks. I left the
restaurant alone.

It was a nice experience. There is nothing wrong if the males pay for it.
There are no dinner whores in India.
 
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I was totally a dinner whore when i was dating. I figure, free food, good company, why not? I would never *pretend* to be into guys just to get the dinner date, but i would always accept on the terms that we were "just getting to know each other" or something. I see nothing wrong with that.

There is everything wrong with this. It amazes me that you don't see that.
 

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How is it wrong if a guy wants to take you to dinner...then you tell him you aren't interested in him like that, and then he says he would still like your company at dinner?
 
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How is it wrong if a guy wants to take you to dinner...then you tell him you aren't interested in him like that, and then he says he would still like your company at dinner?

Because at that point you should be paying for your OWN dinner. Either that or there are some total idiots out there. I will tell you this though, you obviously don't understand guys. We think, even if you say your not interested, but you still go out with us that there is a slight possibility. So in a way your still leading him on and didn't even know it ;)
 

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How is it wrong if a guy wants to take you to dinner...then you tell him you aren't interested in him like that, and then he says he would still like your company at dinner?

Yes. I fully agree with you. Just because one man offers to give food,
a woman need not surrender every thing.
 
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Yes. I fully agree with you. Just because one man offers to give food,
a woman need not surrender every thing.

No one said anything about surrendering anything. I just feel like it is leading the dude on. So what exactly is the man getting out of the deal? Paying for some woman's dinner who doesn't want to date him? Fuck that.
 

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Because at that point you should be paying for your OWN dinner. Either that or there are some total idiots out there. I will tell you this though, you obviously don't understand guys. We think, even if you say your not interested, but you still go out with us that there is a slight possibility. So in a way your still leading him on and didn't even know it ;)
lol and i love how men insist that we women say what we mean...but when we DO, we aren't believed, so what's even the point? If I tell a guy "Look, I am NOT interested in the least bit" (and yes I have used those exact words), then I don't see how that can be misinterpreted...if the guy STILL wants to take me out, then YES, he is an idiot and deserves to lose his $20 or whatever he pays for my meal.
 

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No one said anything about surrendering anything. I just feel like it is leading the dude on. So what exactly is the man getting out of the deal? Paying for some woman's dinner who doesn't want to date him? Fuck that.
Some guys are just like that dude. It's their fault at that point for allowing themselves to be lead on...it's not like the woman is lying to him if she tells him.
 
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