Can people not be nice for the sake of being nice?

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TheOriginalJames

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You mean have I tried being "sweet and sentimental and romantic and complimentary"? Then yes I have. I've also been scorned for watching football by women I'm not even dating.

and sex? hahaha....

Women are far more complicated than the single line of 'how-to' you gave us.
 
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Love women, James, but never try to work them out or understand them. Its a path which can only lead to disappointment and ruin!
 

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My answer to is that you apparently don't know how to be sweet, sentimental, romantic or complimentary.
Although calling me "babe" was a start, hun.

I actually find this response to be rude and inconsiderate, please don't judge me like that when all you know is my first name. I'm not egotistical, I just ask for attention from women, and I don't treat them as just vaginas walking around the earth who's sole purpose is to please me. I treat everyone with the same respect as I receive.

I just end up getting treated like crap because I ask a girl out who throws the 'i don't like you like that' thing back at me. It never fails. But since you want to peg me as a fucking asshole of a guy, go for it, but you know what they say when you assume.
 

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I agree with James, why do you assume that the girls he's met are nice like that? Just as likely that James is a nice guy who knows how to treat women but the ones he has gone for are arseholes who mess guys around.
 

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I think there are just many kinds of people out there, and this topic is hard to debate on a general level. we all cant go to the beat of one drum.
and different strokes for different folks.
 

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Oh dear. Are you not used to conversing or something? I am one of THE least rude and inconsiderate people you'll ever know. On the contrary, you appear to have started calling me names and judging me without provocation. And when you respond back to me, remember that I NEVER called you a name, nor did I judge you in the slightest. I was under the impression that we were exchanging ideas for the purpose of bettering male-female relationships. I would like to assure you that I never intended to insult you. All I know is that I offered an opinion. I thought that was ALLOWED here. If you disagree with me, then that is your right, but keep your egostistical name-calling and fake macho he-man approach out of my face. And just to make my point, you are acting JUST like the guy who changed the tire and then got pissed 'cause he couldn't get a phone number. I assume you've read what everyone thinks of him.

I called you babe. If thats you in your avatar then I stand behind the compliment I gave you. I said that the judgment you seem to have bestowed upon me as a person seemed a little rude and inconsiderate as you're quick to judge my temperment and how I treat others around me. I never called you rude or inconsiderate as a person. See the difference now?

I asked for your opinion, and you gave it to me. That's just fine and dandy, however when my response was that acting one way towards a woman may be fine for woman A, but for woman B it gets you nowhere, you simply continued on telling me your opinion without opening up to view my opinion yourself, instead your response indicated to me that I was viewed as and masked with guys who treat women like crap.

I'm not upset or insulted by this, I just find that my being lumped with assholes who just want to get laid as rude.

Ask anyone here how many times I've gone out simply looking to get laid.

Actually, just ask anyone here how many times I actually have had sex from trying to be nice, complimentary and romantic. Or, well at all.

If you still feel the need to stick behind this response:
My answer to is that you apparently don't know how to be sweet, sentimental, romantic or complimentary.

then I have nothing left to say in what was a simple conversation before this judgment came down with a swift punch of the enter key.
 

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My answer to is that you apparently don't know how to be sweet, sentimental, romantic or complimentary.
Although calling me "babe" was a start, hun.

People take being called Babe an insult James...

I know, it depends on the woman... which is proving my entire point from the beginning.

But unless I read her response to it incorrectly, she didn't take it as an insult. *insert emoticon of a completely confused 25 year old male here*
 

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I try to be nice because that's what other's deserve as people. It just gets hard sometimes but I always keep on trying
 
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