This is my 1,000th post so I want to make it memorable...
For once, sir, we can totally agree
I've been with friends, people who I'd ordinarily consider reasonably educated and well brought-up, found someone's digital camera or wallet and it would take me ages to convince them to hand them into the police. The default response it seems is to take. There are some nice folk in the world though, a friend of mine dropped his wallet and was pretty convinced it was on the bus. I told him that someone would hand it in but he refused to believe me so didn't call the bus company. A couple of hours later he got a phone call from the police who had his wallet . it had been handed in by one of the passengers, complete with cards, cash and a small joint inside... that kind of thing gives one hope.
This is the real problem I guess, as you said, we simply can't agree on morals, manners nor ethics. For me, a good work ethic is a no-brainer, but as you've mentioned, there's a large proportion of adults who don't possess this themselves, and would be unable to teach anything other than how to get the maximum benefits from the social security system. I think that's where it might be better taught in educational establishments. As a whole, society should be able to agree on certain principles, that should be able to be taught in school. That probably won't cancel out a lot of the bad education a lot of kids receive at home, but it might make some headway...