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what do you think...should she be charged for this?

2 year old dies in car

Police Interview With Brenda Slaby Released

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Sep 06 2007 7:36PM

Brenda Nesselroad Slaby said she didn't deserve to live as she tried to explain to police how she forgot her little girl was asleep in the back seat of her car. As she speaks, Slaby weeps, and wonders out loud how she can go on with life. Two year-old Cecilia was discovered in the back seat of her mother's car eight hours after Brenda Slaby got to work at Glen Este Middle School.

In this developing story,ONN affiliate Local 12's Deborah Dixon has her interview at the Union Township Police Station.

Brenda Slaby frequently put her head down and wept as she retraced the morning she forgot about two year old Cecilia. It was the day before the vice-principal's first day of school. There was an important meeting. Cecilia was in the back seat.

"Brenda Slaby told police it was too early to drop cecelia off at the sitter's so she came here to the bakery to get doughnuts for the staff. When she changed her routine, Slaby forgot Cecilia was in the back seat."

"Was she asleep? She was always alseep, always sound asleep."

Cecilia slept through the doughnut delivery to school. It took two trips. Then Brenda Slaby parked the car with Cecilia inside. 8 hours later, someone pulled into the parking and saw her. Slaby rushed to the car and carried her blistered daughter into the air conditioned school. It was too late.

"No one thinks you did this on purpose. No-one is doubting that Brenda, good mother's don't do that."

Brenda Slaby tried to calculate living with what she did.

"I don't know how you go on having done this to one of your kids, and ever forgive yourself."

In police interviews, Brenda was described as stressed out about the first day of school. A teacher at her other daughter's school said the Slaby's were always in a hurry.

"I was trying to be everything to everybody. I failed my daughter."

Slaby was not charged because prosecutors consider the death an accident. In Ohio, accidents are not crimes, and the child endangering statute doesn't include negligence. If it did, she'd probably be charged.

Daniel Breyer, Assistant Clermont County Prosecutor: "You could clearly make a case her behavior was substantial lapse of due care, negligence, if the state law involved negligence would have gone to a grand jury."

Breyer said the office followed the law. People who don't like the law should work to get it changed. The police interviews released yesterday said there were four incidents at the other daughter's school when Cecilia was left in the car. The recorded interview with the director indicates it was the father who twice left Cecilia in the car when he dropped her sister off, and Brenda Slaby did the same twice when she picked the child up.


UNION TOWNSHIP, Ohio - Police reports from Union Township indicate Glen Este Vice Principal Brenda Nesselroad-Slaby left her child inside her vehicle on at least three previous occasions. One of the incidents, the week Cecilia died, lasted around ten minutes.

In the reports, on August 25, Detective Sgt Blankenship writes: "based on past review of cases involving unattended children, research, training, professional knowledge, and after review of this case in its entirety, I believe sufficient evidence exists to support a charge of Endangering Children, a felony of the third degree."
 
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It was a horrible accident. No she should not be charged.

I do not agree with the people that want her to be charged with a felony for something that was an accident and not done intentional or recklessly.

I think of what I've read regarding people living under laws that expected them to be perfect / holy / no mistakes - in some cases that is what this country is coming to it seems. It's wrong and it is ridiculous IMO.
 

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I think that she have got the worst punishment for her stupidity when her child, she loved had died.
 

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... how do you forget about your children?
that was why i put this up here in debate...i sit here wondering that over and over again. Maybe I would see it different if there ever comes the day i forget about kylie...but i dont see how its possible...nor do i ever see myself doing that. I wont allow it to happen.

and as much as she got the worst punishment in the world by losing her daughter...which i really understand.

just as i said before i cant seem to wrap my head around forgetting your child...who is solely dependent on the parent for safety and protection....how can you forget that responsibility...how can you forget to provide that protection to someone so very important...someone so very helpless
 

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It was an honest mistake, but it is still her fault. A 2 year old girl, maybe a girl who couldhave cured cancer or aid's, maybe the first human on mar's, or maybe just a doctor saving someones life..is dead...

Drinking and driving? Child abuse? Not the case, but the same outcome. You cant leave a helpless 2 year old in a car alone, never ever.

Negligence.
 

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Daniel Breyer, Assistant Clermont County Prosecutor: "You could clearly make a case her behavior was substantial lapse of due care, negligence,
Indeed!! It's a terrible accident/mistake, but it's one that could and should be avoided at all costs. EK has a point.

The police interviews released yesterday said there were four incidents at the other daughter's school when Cecilia was left in the car. The recorded interview with the director indicates it was the father who twice left Cecilia in the car when he dropped her sister off, and Brenda Slaby did the same twice when she picked the child up.
FOUR TIMES?!?! Jeebus Cripes!! It was only a matter of time apparently! :(
 

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He says she was left for very short periods of time and Slaby parked right in front of the doors. On these occasions the temperature in the car was not excessive. White says the bottom line here is still intent. By the legal definition what she did was not reckless because there is still no evidence to suggest she knowingly left Cecilia in the hot car that day.

She was busy and changed her normal routine that day. In her mind she more than likely thought she had dropped her off at her day care.

I guess I can relate because I've forgotten about my kids before on accident, just out simply being busy and responsible for work, school, 3 kids, etc.

When we came home from the hospital (hubby, I, and our two boys) with our third child, we forgot her in the car in the garage for a couple of minutes. I thought my husband brought her in, he thought I did. It was funny at the time.

Unfortunately her human busy-ness and forgetfulness is not something she'll be able to look back and laugh at. I feel very sorry for the child and for the family's loss.
:(
 

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I just saw something like this on the news last night.
A lady was too busy doing a drug deal in her living room and left her 2 year old to watch her baby in the bathroom tub...the baby died.
 

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ive heard this story before.. it was with a 9 month old... same circumstances, mom changed her routine and forgot about the baby...

i cant imagine a change so drastic that you would forget about your child... when i have a child in my car.. i am constantly looking in my rearview to see them, what they are doind.. and talk to them...

how can you just... forget? :dunno
 

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I thought at first it could be feasible, but then the last part changed my mind, where the report says that her and her husband have done it a few times before.

Breyer said the office followed the law. People who don't like the law should work to get it changed. The police interviews released yesterday said there were four incidents at the other daughter's school when Cecilia was left in the car. The recorded interview with the director indicates it was the father who twice left Cecilia in the car when he dropped her sister off, and Brenda Slaby did the same twice when she picked the child up.

So no, I feel it was deliberate to leave that child in the car. When something happens just once, then it is a mistake, more than that is deliberate. :mad
 
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