right i work with this young woman......let me explain if you will
not long ago this woman weighed in at 23 stones,thats 322 lbs.....well a couple of years ago she got married,but because her new husband cant get out of bed in the morning they had to give up the house they were renting and move in with her parents......now heres my beef,they've now decided that they want a baby,but couldn't conceive....so the hospital told her that if she lost weight they'd consider IVF treatment,so far so good?
well the brutal fact is that they should have been vetted and house visits made,let me explain
on a good day this woman stinks of stale urine,her personal hygeine is disgraceful,i've seen her go home at night with dirt on her face and turn up the next day with the dirt still there,so obviously no washing took place,her teeth some days are a shade of yellow,so obviously she doesn't know how to brush them....her parents have 3 dogs that never get walked and 12 cats that are never let out,obviously theres the source of the smell,i've seen her turn up some days with her back and trousers totally covered in pet hair,a real mat of it...but still shes lost 2 of those stones so everythings good to go with the IVF treatment....so far so good?...a fit parent?...still no vetting though
now heres my real beef
if a couple in their early 50's won 150 million on the euro millions decided they wanted to adopt a couple of kids and give them the lifestyle most can only dream about they be refused,even though they'd live in a big house,have nice holidays,everythings clean and be in a position to do a great job at bringing kids up
the problem is that they'd be vetted and told that they're to old to adopt...its madness
not long ago this woman weighed in at 23 stones,thats 322 lbs.....well a couple of years ago she got married,but because her new husband cant get out of bed in the morning they had to give up the house they were renting and move in with her parents......now heres my beef,they've now decided that they want a baby,but couldn't conceive....so the hospital told her that if she lost weight they'd consider IVF treatment,so far so good?
well the brutal fact is that they should have been vetted and house visits made,let me explain
on a good day this woman stinks of stale urine,her personal hygeine is disgraceful,i've seen her go home at night with dirt on her face and turn up the next day with the dirt still there,so obviously no washing took place,her teeth some days are a shade of yellow,so obviously she doesn't know how to brush them....her parents have 3 dogs that never get walked and 12 cats that are never let out,obviously theres the source of the smell,i've seen her turn up some days with her back and trousers totally covered in pet hair,a real mat of it...but still shes lost 2 of those stones so everythings good to go with the IVF treatment....so far so good?...a fit parent?...still no vetting though
now heres my real beef
if a couple in their early 50's won 150 million on the euro millions decided they wanted to adopt a couple of kids and give them the lifestyle most can only dream about they be refused,even though they'd live in a big house,have nice holidays,everythings clean and be in a position to do a great job at bringing kids up
the problem is that they'd be vetted and told that they're to old to adopt...its madness
