Ok I have had a chance to read several pms and read through the posts on the subject matter and this is what I think needs to be said.
First of all are we not all adults here? I dont think that sitting here snyping at eachother is making any of you look very mature. I understand that there are different viewpoints of different people and obviously friendships that have developed among some of you that make your views shift one way or the other, but remember we do have an ignore button to stop you from having to read the stuff that annoys you.
I would say Im pretty unbias to this situation in regard to this because first of all its my job but secondly I havent been on alot to form any opinions either way about some of you newer members.
Now after reading the thread I really dont see any flirting that was way out of line going on. We all flirt its part of this forum. I do realize there was an issue earlier in the year that happened regarding a couple of members the some thought was getting out of control so there was some complaining going on about that and a seperate thread was made because of it.
Trance Im sure you are a little more sensitive to that since you were involved directly.
I have also seen alot of jabs made by a couple members throughout the board pretty regularly here. You know who you are. Keep it to pms and off the forum its not necessary and nobody really cares.
Tonight was way blown out of proportion in my opinion and should never have gotten to the point that it did. If the ignore button was used or everyone wouldnt have fed into eachother it surely wouldnt have escalated sooooo